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Today I got a long msg from a stranger who’s struggling with his life, his purpose & direction💔 He had dreams & started working on them, but got caught in reality & stopped believing. Now he doesn’t see how to continue life. He is scared to be too old to fail. He asked me “What shall I do? How do I find a path worth living? How do you do it?” ⁉️
I was overwhelmed by this & I thought “How am I gonna reply without writing a book”🙈
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So anyway here is what I think...
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I believe that in everyone there‘s a “spark” that always waits to be turned on. During hard times I also can’t see goals that are worth pursuing or even attainable, because my self-confidence gets buried in doubt & fear 😣
Thats when I typically forget about my “spark”, as if my passion for life is dead. But the thing is, you gotta KEEP ON MOVING! by moving I simply mean finding out what you could do NOW and then act upon it. For me it becomes easier when I move - no matter how SLOW or in what DIRECTION... even if it’s a step back😬👌🏽
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Because every time I force myself to move, at some point the feeling of that SPARK DOES COME BACK⚡️ Maybe cuz I got an insight, cuz my frustration turns to anger&productivity, cuz I realize that I DO have power over my actions, that I AM RESPONSIBLE & CAPABLE of directing my life.
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Compared to dwelling on feeling STUCK, MOVEMENT is a reminder that every path is made of a MILLION baby steps. You gotta continue, even when you feel frustrated.
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We’re ALL IN OUR OWN LANE, there’s no “too old” to work on yourself. I think in life we’ll not always feel happy, because CHANGE is constant & every time something goes down, life sucks! But I am learning now to recreate my happiness often.
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We OWE it to ourselves to be HAPPY! The “purpose of life” for me is simply LIVING it - so don’t overthink this, just get out there! You’ll look back&laugh, maybe cuz things were glorious, or they were a “glorious DISASTER”😉🤟🏽
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You are born to shine. EACH one of us has a SPARK. And believe me, every time you do find that spark within it will feel like it just COULDN’T WAIT for you to LIGHT IT UP and turn it into a whole damn FIRE!!!💥🔥
同時也有1部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過5萬的網紅Brenda Tan,也在其Youtube影片中提到,ok this may not quaaaalify as a vlog?? but there are bloopers at the end! i was so tired and spent 5-6h yesterday in the festival just watching films ...
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stranger things reminder 在 Brenda Tan Youtube 的精選貼文
ok this may not quaaaalify as a vlog?? but there are bloopers at the end! i was so tired and spent 5-6h yesterday in the festival just watching films so here's a cover instead, we did this earlier this week and i haven't jammed in a million years but i love it. here are the people you see:
Stephanie (@ineedsixeggs) on keys
Norman (@manelorenmusic) on guitar
Xuan KaI (@axekay) on bass
Me on trying my best
sound mixing: norms
videography: me
making this happen: steph
showing up and learning this 30 minutes before: xuan
I mentioned in my coping with depression and anxiety video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GzHDLnjEIgM) that I struggle with my mental health constantly and I hit a really rough patch these two weeks after feeling its onset the past few months. Making and rewatching that video was a good reminder to me on how I can be proactive in helping myself recover or even just function, at least. I think I'll talk about this in an upcoming video but this particular wave came really hard and I didn't know if I would be okay for a while. I don't think I'm 100% still, but maybe 70% and that's already so much better. One thing that always brings me out of it even for a while is being able to make and create and share things so that's why I'm jumping head first into vlogmas. I'm damn lucky to have such talented friends who want to do the same so the making of this cover was honestly great. The entire day was literally a shit storm (heavy rain and flash flooding in school!!!) but because of their company and the music, it made the day okay.
So I hope you enjoy it! Lmk in the comments if you have any requests for covers cos we'd love to make more!
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