最好的自己不在未來,就在現在。
認真回想,以前我好像在每一段關係中都是在扮演某一個角色,不由自主的在為每個對象做調整。不只有在戀愛上,有時候可能跟朋友、工作夥伴都是,尤其是在前輩面前,常常我都會本能反應似的改變自己。聲音要甜一點嗎?笑話要低級一點嗎?從穿衣服就可以看出,我今天是要跟誰吃飯。雖然是微調,但透露出了一件事,我好像不夠喜歡真正的自己,所以才會擔心大家也不會喜歡真正的我。我告訴自己即使累,但如果持續努力,有一天就能變成大家都喜歡的Lara。
久而久之我和世界的相處模式只有「由外到內」,會依照別人對我的反應去斷定我的下一步。大家會覺得我很好相處,我卻越來越不快樂。現在我慢慢開始懂了,原來我把順序弄反了。我該優先處理的是自己內心的感受,其他人買不買單,其實跟你一點關係都沒有。就像找另外一半,如果我跟夢中情人在一起,但我根本無法在他面前做自己,最後還是會走不下去。
我現在33歲,So What? 終於懂,「當下的自己」才是人生時間軸上最重要的!
對了,有人好奇這次「{}」的意思嗎?簡單說是「大括號」,在數學運算式中稱作「空集合」。數學不好的人就想像一個清空的行李箱吧。「空」不是無,而是無限可能。括號還有另外一個更好懂的意思,就是「優先處理」。將過去整理過後的自己,回歸純粹,態度成熟自信!(失戀後重新出發的人應該很有感觸吧!🤣)
Your best self is not in the future, but in the Now.
Looking back, I seem to have been playing a role in almost every relationship I was ever in. I'm not just talking about romantic relationships. Whether it was with friends or colleagues (especially seniors), I would modify myself almost instinctively. Should my voice be sweeter? My jokes dirtier? If you wanted to know who I was eating with that day, all you had to do was look at the clothes I was wearing.
The changes were subtle, but they still reflected a truth: I didn’t feel like the real me was enough so I was worried that other people would also find her lacking. I told myself that if I just kept working at it, I would someday become a version of Lara that everyone accepted.
Eventually I only knew how to get my cues from the external world. I would always base my next step on feedback I got from others. Most people considered me easy to get along with, but I grew more and more unhappy.
I think I had it all wrong. My first priority should have been listening to my inner voice. Whether or not other people agree with it is not in my control nor of my concern. Take looking for a partner. Even if I found the person of my dreams, it would never last if I couldn’t be myself around them.
I am 33 years old. So What? I finally understand that "the present self" is the most important thing on the timeline of life! It’s time to prioritize me!
By the way, is anyone curious about the meaning of "{}" this time? Besides the more commonly known representation of parentheses as prioritization, these curly brackets are called “the empty set”. The empty what? If like me, math is not your strongest suit, think of it as an empty suitcase. "Empty" doesn’t mean nothing, but infinite possibilities! What will you fill your life with this time?
2021全新專輯《來者何人{}》
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(思忖著父親節)我來台灣快10年了,由於距離太遠我爸至今沒能來看我。他的身體不好,加上飲食的問題,長途飛行對他來說將會是一場噩夢,所以我總是回到美國,從沒想過要他飛來台灣。不過,在他 2017 年再婚後,飛來台灣成為可能的事,兩個人一起旅行比一個人旅行容易多了,因此他們計劃拜訪我,並打算在去年三月第一次拜訪台灣。不幸的是,幾乎所有航班都在 2020 年春季取消,因此這次旅行並沒有成形,且可能不再有下一次機會......我昨晚和他談過,明年也許我可能會飛回美國,至少我們還能在美國團聚,他不再單單只是個父親,而是一個祖父,我哥哥已經生了兩個小孩,我還沒有見過他們,雖然現在仍然不是一個很好的旅遊時機,但我們希望明年疫情會好轉。
我想作為父親是一項艱鉅的工作。回想起來,我知道我沒有讓它變得容易。他大部分時間也是單親父親,在我母親去世 22 年後,他終於再婚了,非常恭喜他!我最後一次見到他,還是在這張四年前的他的婚禮上(照片中)。再過3天我父親將滿 70 歲,祝福我的爸爸和所有的爸爸,尤其是所有的單身爸爸,父親節快樂。
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還要帶他去個漂亮或好玩的地方。雖然週末到處都在下雨……但我相信太陽很快就會出來。)
(Fathers Day Musings) I've been in Taiwan for almost 10 years now, but my dad has so far been unable to visit me here. He's in poor health and has a lot of food issues that make plane travel a logistical nightmare. So I always went back to the USA and never expected him to be able to come here. After he married in 2017 though, it became a real possibility. Traveling together is easier than traveling alone, so they made plans to visit me and had intended to arrive in Taiwan for the first time in March of last year. Basically all travel was cancelled in spring of 2020 though, so that trip didn't happen. And it looks like it might never happen... But I talked to him last night and it seems like I might be able to go to the USA next year, so at least theres that. He's not just a father anymore, but a grandfather. My brother has two kids now that I've never seen and while it's still a terrible time to travel, we can hope that next year will be better.
It's a hard job being a father I think. Looking back I know that I didn't make it easy. He was a single father for most of it too, but 22 years after my mother died he finally remarried. So congratulations to him. The last time I saw him was at his own wedding 4 years ago. He turns 70 in 3 days. So to all the Dad's out there and especially all the single dad's out there, Happy Fathers Days.
(PS: And to all the son's out there, get your Dad something nice.
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想 想 疫 情,想 想 多 少 人 三 餐 不 繼,你 就 會 把 飲 料 打 翻 這 件 事 看 成 灰 塵。
這 幾 天 有 點 忙,忙 完 了 我 再 分 享 『杯 蓋』,先 來 個 預 告,90% 都 漏 😆 就 像 衛 生 棉。不 會 100% 不 漏,只 有 多 漏 還 是 少 漏。因 此,當 你 即 將 又 要 為 下 一 個 外 送 打 翻 的 飲 料 發 火 時,請 重 看 本 文 第 一 句 話,然 後 Inhale... Exhale ….
Take it easy 😌
take easy還是take it easy 在 yyselina Youtube 的最佳解答
嗨大家!這一整週的行程都超滿的!想在朋友抵達之前把該做的事情都做一做!去了牙醫、包了很多貨、還做了大掃除!
五月的我真是幸福,在家工作都有朋友的陪伴!除了看牙醫的部分我實在很痛苦!因為有八顆蛀牙還回診了兩次有夠崩潰:)
人生實在不公平之證明一:正基整天吃糖吃零食沒蛀牙,我都沒在吃結果有蛀牙(還是是因為我喝奶茶?不是吧?)
人生實在不公平之證明二:我每天用各種保養品保養皮膚還是沒到很讚,正基只要用凡士林就可以有水煮蛋肌:)
我不依!!!!!!好啦 知足惜福:) 健康就好! 哈哈哈哈哈哈哈!
希望大家喜歡這支影片ㄡ!喜歡記得留言給偶!
♡我的西雅圖人妻朋友安安在被我遊說了七七四十九天之後,終於開了她的頻道大家可以訂閱起來!
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♡關於片中提到的果汁隨行杯♡
隨行果汁機落落長心得分享:
1. 優點是非常方便也輕巧!不需要插電也可以直接打,運動後打香蕉高蛋白也不會怕麻煩就懶惰!
2. 缺點是一次的量比較小沒辦法打太大杯!打冷凍的東西不太夠力!
3. 這個不會讓我覺得可以取代原本的插電果汁機~如果家裡本身已經有一般插電果汁機我不會覺得有買一台這個在家裡使用的必要性~插電的還是會比較夠力打的也可以比較大杯!但這台就是快速方便重點是可攜帶不需插電,需求不同!
4. 如果是本身家裡沒有廚房或是沒什麼收納空間買大台的,但覺得有這一台也可以幫自己打個健康果汁的話,那非常適合你!
5. 我還有覺得很適合放在上班的地方,隨時去超商買個簡單的東西就可以幫自己打杯果汁提起精神!
6. 最後我想到!!!去露營可以帶這個!有喝果汁的日子就是覺得神清氣爽ㄚ!!!
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take easy還是take it easy 在 itsAmanda! Youtube 的最讚貼文
There’s no score available, this cover was done by ear.
周杰倫6首經典情歌串燒來了!
明明就、青花瓷、擱淺、楓、手寫的從前、退後
周杰倫的歌比一般歌手的歌不容易聽膩
不管是旋律、和弦、還是歌詞都很特別
所有歌的key我都是照著原本的 沒有升高或降低
這也算是我其中一個強迫症🤣
每次彈cover我絕對不改key
因為我覺得人家歌手寫那個key一定有他的道理 所以我就是一定要照著他的key彈!
人家每次問我最喜歡聽誰的中文歌
我一定立馬回答周杰倫:))
他的歌我聽最多 所也才有辦法做接歌
之前在我IG精選動態也有即興彈周杰倫的接歌過
但那每首歌只需要彈15秒 所以很容易
這次彈這個一鏡到底 連著六首
我只能說 差點沒被我自己搞死🤣
因爲一鏡到底 沒有修音的緣故
所以有些微錯音還請大家多多包容🧡
希望你們喜歡這次的cover!
Here is a mashup of six songs I’ve pieced together from Jay Chou! @周杰倫 Jay Chou
I played all the songs with its original keys because I feel like there must be a reason the singer chose these keys for the songs.
Jay Chou has been my favorite Taiwanese singer since I was young - you won’t get tired of his songs easily because the melodies, chords and lyrics are just so unique.
I actually improvised Jay Chou’s songs on my Instagram before (you guys can still see it on my Instagram Highlight.) That was easy because I only had to play 15 seconds for each song:))
But now, there are six songs in a row, with a duration of 11 minutes in total (all done in one take)...so you might hear some wrong notes:p
Anyway, I hope you guys will love this cover the same as I do👾💞
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take easy還是take it easy 在 SKRpresents 陶山音樂 Youtube 的最讚貼文
李杰明 W.M.L Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_BJh1Mu7PPeS2THyw0DMZOYBOhYS2EAx
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詞曲:李杰明WML
編製:陶山 Skot Suyama
導演:yongboyneverdie
憤世嫉俗
Rebel
我可能不再憤世嫉俗
Maybe I'm not angry anymore
也可能是我選擇融入
Or maybe it's me trying to fit in
但終究會感到受屈辱
But eventually I will feel like an outsider again
小心別沉溺同流合污
Be careful not to sacrifice myself or forget I'm a rebel
我們每個階段都需要做出選擇
Every crossroad of our life we need to choose
炯炯有神或是喪失意志的眼神
Choose to stay awake or to give up living
社會雜亂的形成 砸亂我人生的行程
Society is a messed up place
狹隘的路摒棄凝神 乏味導致失去靈魂
Asking us to sacrifice our true feelings and follow the popular path
所以 你確定安逸會是一種福氣
Is that really a safe and successful life
還是你放棄為自己而努力
Or if I choose it means I give up trying to be me
向社會投降變成你的主意
Surrendering to society
你所有的夢想都絕口不提
Give up our dreams and just settling
You trying to wake up
就算那恍然大悟的感覺你還是會怕
Even the wake up feelings are so scary and alone
I'm trying to wake up
我想我活著的目標不是為了向社會跪下
Life is too precious for me to hand it over to society
我們會選擇安逸是因為看似輕鬆
I would choose society because it seems easy
或許我們已把所有渴望埋在心中
Perhaps we just bury the real us under the ground
有太多的"一定”
There are too many "have to"
太多"應該"
Too many "what you should do"
都看似能平靜的踩上青苔
Everybody chose to breath but not to live
我可能不再憤世嫉俗
Maybe I'm not angry anymore
也可能是我選擇融入
Or maybe it's me trying to fit in
但終究會感到受屈辱
But eventually I will feel like an outsider again
小心別沉溺同流合污
Be careful not to sacrifice myself or forget I'm a rebel
以前憤世嫉俗可能是因為低自信
My madness before maybe it's my low confidence
現在保持憤怒為了打破所有既定
Now I'm staying angry because I'm ready to fight
我要的是自由但我逐漸變得冷漠
I just want to take control of my own life
別向命運低頭去貪得一時的懶惰
Don't give up to exchange the delusional safe fantasy
會變得冷漠
Don't lose my true self
是看到這場混戰 感到孤軍奮戰
Even fighting society I will feel alone
蛻變成冷漠
But don't give up
但別被社會斬斷 原本熱情所在
Don't lose our passion in life
在這世上
In this world
有太多的規則在我們的身上
Too many rules are limiting us
但熱情力量
But our true feelings and passion
會改變原本社會給予的方向
Can break all the rules and we have no limits
有太多藉口讓我們向社會屈服
It's so easy for us to give up and obey
對你做的事情有熱情就會感到幸福
But if you live your life passionately you will be free
我可能不再憤世嫉俗
Maybe I'm not angry anymore
也可能是我選擇融入
Or maybe it's me trying to fit in
但終究會感到受屈辱
But eventually I will feel like an outsider again
小心別沉溺同流合污
Be careful not to sacrifice myself or forget I'm a rebel
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大家都知道Take it easy.的意思是“放輕鬆”,但你知道,Take it easy也有goodbye的意思嗎? 此用法是美式用法。 ✎例句: A: I've got to go and pick up my brother. B: OK. ... <看更多>
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輕鬆一下take it easy~今晚不拼命~ ... Fashion show的T型台走秀新招-這是服裝設計師還是美女模特問題?意外還是故意啊⋯⋯God bless the lady on the runway … ... <看更多>
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高二的題目
I think you should take things _____.
答案是easy
不過我看字典例句是說
We will take your suggest seriously.
此外該課課文中也是寫 ...never take himself too seriously.
我想請問上面題目的答案是不是把easy做為受詞補語
那麼可以用easily來修飾take嗎
謝謝
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作者: RyeCatcher (Blood Road) 看板: Eng-Class
標題: Re: [文法] take things easy還是easily
時間: Sat Apr 16 15:18:37 2005
因為easy本身可以當adv.阿^^
它的意思這時為:without too much hurry or anxiety
這種用法還有如 Take it easy!
easy在此都是當adv.用的
而easily則解釋為:without difficulty 為容易地 輕易地
Ex.I can easily finish the job.
兩個字有一點差異喔 我只是大概解釋一下^^
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作者: sppiou (老師被抓走了~"~) 看板: Eng-Class
標題: Re: [文法] take things easy還是easily
時間: Sun Apr 17 17:13:31 2005
這是我用Macmillan查出來的easily用法
1 without difficulty
例如You could go there and back in a day easily.
2 for saying something is likely
例如The situation could easily get worse.
3 definitely
例如This is easily his best album in years.
4 more often than usual
例如Some babies cry more easily than others.
5 in confident/relaxed way
例如He moved easily between traditional and modern jazz.
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