關於 virtues of a mother ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

【萬善之頭】The Origin of Virtuousness

今天是農曆七月初五，也是我唸報父母恩咒的第五天。

這咒我唸了十五的農曆七月了。

讀到許多觀眾留言，說因為我的直播，他們也在今年開始持這咒，我真的真的⋯⋯為你們的父母感到欣慰。😄

在華人的社會裡，一般來說，正正當當的賺錢孝敬父母、和顏悅色、奉公守法、傳宗接代，不做丟人現眼的事是基本的孝。

但這些在佛教裡，實屬小孝。

以這定義，我絕對是不孝女，因為有很多年我做生意負債時，一分錢都給不到父母，又不敢對他們坦白，只說沒錢。

好啦，如果您有本事，做生意成功，風光回鄉，讓您父母和祖宗十八代笑得見牙不見眼，那也只有中孝而已。

最大的孝，是修行，因為您能助您父母脫離六道，您們都不用再受輪迴之苦。

因此釋迦牟尼佛成佛時，祂的母親摩耶夫人便得升忉利天中，享天福。

您能先從一佛號、一佛咒開始，便已向修行的道路邁出第一步了！

不要小看報父母恩咒，因為這是釋迦牟尼佛所傳的。所以各位大德，千萬要記得這一點 - 一定要教您的孩子和您一起唸報父母恩咒！👧🏻👦🏻

做父母的，要懂得投資啊！百善孝為先，孩子小小年紀就懂得盡孝，就有了人最基本的良知，為自己種下了廣大的福田。就算以後您不在他們的身邊，他們也必會遇到貴人扶持，命運不會太壞，只因為他們是孝子孝女。

再說了，萬一您有什麼三長兩短，修行失敗，還有個後代可以助您！錯過了蓮花捷運，到不了佛國淨土，到天界做天人，總比擠在一堆骨灰盎裡好呀！😂

報父母恩咒：「南無密栗哆。哆婆曳。梭哈」
Nan Mo Mi Li Duo Duo Po Yi Soha

（我是修真佛密法的，因此此咒結尾，我是依著我師尊的唸音，唸「梭哈」。這代表圓滿、成就的意思。）

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報父母恩咒49遍: https://youtu.be/a9XbKo6_L6E
唸報父母恩咒有何功德：https://youtu.be/x-7GPmbq5nw

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Today is the 5th day of the 7th Lunar month, and also my fifth day of reciting the Mantra of Repaying the Debt of Gratitude to Parents this year.

I have been reciting this mantra for fifteen years.

I read many comments from my viewers, that they started reciting this mantra this year after watching my Lives. I am so glad for your parents. 😄

In our Chinese society, generally speaking, the most basic forms of filial piety include:

1) making a honest living to give pocket money to our parents
2) being pleasant towards our parents
3) not breaking the law
4) carrying on the family lineage
5) not doing any shameful act

However, in the eyes of the Dharma, these are merely small acts of filial piety.

Going by this definition, I am definitely an unfilial daughter. Because there were many years when I got into debt from doing business and was unable to give my parents a single cent. I could not bring myself to tell them the truth and could only say I was broke.

Okay, if you are more capable than me congratulations on your big-time success in doing business! So you return to your homeland in triumphant victory and see your parents + ancestors of the past 18 generations grinning from teeth to teeth.

That is just the medium level of filial piety.

The biggest form of filial piety is spiritual cultivation. For you can help your parents to break free from the six realms of reincarnation and all of you will no longer have to undergo the sufferings of birth and death.

Hence, when Shakyamuni Buddha attained Buddhahood, his deceased mother, Queen Maya, ascended to Trayastrimsas Heaven to enjoy heavenly pleasures.

When you start reciting one Buddha’s name, or one Buddhist mantra, you have already taken your first step onto the path of Buddhist cultivation.

Do not belittle the Mantra of Repaying Debt of Gratitude to Parents, for it was expounded by Shakyamuni Buddha.

So to all my noble audience, please remember this very important point - you must teach your children to recite this mantra together with you! 👧🏻👦🏻

As parents, we should all be astute investors. Filial piety is the most important of all virtues. When a child knows how to be filial from a young age, he/she already has the most basic conscience as a human, and that will sow the seeds for fields of great blessedness.

Come one day when you can no longer be by your child’s side, your child will definitely meet many benefactors in the life path and not have a wretched destiny, because they are filial from young.

Moreover, if anything untoward happen to you and you fail miserably in your spritual cultivation, at least you still have a descendant to help you.

Should you miss the lotus train to the Buddha’s Pureland, to be a celestial being in the Heaven far surpasses the fate of being squeezed like sardines in a urn placed in the columbarium. 👻

報父母恩咒：「南無密栗哆。哆婆曳。梭哈」
Nan Mo Mi Li Duo Duo Po Yi Soha

(I practices the True Buddha Tantric Dharma, thus I follow my Root Guru’s recitation sounds and recite “soha” at the end of this mantra. This represents perfection and accomplishment.）

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Mantra to Repay Debt of Gratitude to Parents x 49: https://youtu.be/a9XbKo6_L6E
Merits of this mantra：https://youtu.be/x-7GPmbq5nw

【匹夫有責】OUR DUTY TO UPHOLD
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小時候，家裡遇難，錢不夠用，於是有些學費和上學零用錢是新加坡政府資助我的。

現在長大了，國家有難，依然是政府給我們口罩，還給大家「零用錢」，助人民度過危機。

今天領到口罩時，有種歷史重演的感覺。

在新加坡，我們很多人經歷過2003年非典型、2009年H1N1、多年的印尼煙霧，最嚴重時是2015年，空氣污染指數在2015年10月20日飆到417。我連我家對面的組屋都看不到～

按常理來說，有了這些天災人禍的經歷，我們應該未雨綢繆。能力允許時，每個人都該累積至少六個月的口罩存貨，以備萬一。

但我們大多數的人都沒有。

我們只是希望不要再發生，可這想法是個妄念，因為天災人禍不會因為你的希望而自動消失。

只有我們的政府靜悄悄地在籌備。

可能有些人認為錢可以花在更好玩的地方，反正政府會照顧我們。所以慈母多敗兒這句話，並不是沒有道理。

今年二月份時，我向一位老闆提議製造口罩，以合理價錢售賣給本地人，也算是善業。當時，他認為沒必要，中國逐漸復工，兩個月後供應量就會恢復正常，因此無法賺什麼錢。

老闆，你看錯了，你口中的兩個月後，就是現在的四月。全球依然口罩短缺。不怪你不相信我，只是⋯⋯

新加坡為什麼多方面能夠卓越，不只是因為我們的地理位置佔了優勢，而是先驅們為人民的精神累積了不少福德，所以才能前人種樹，後人乘涼。

一個只看數字不看人的老闆，必定在自己的人生裡，會有眾叛親離的遭遇。

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When I was a kid, my family had a lot of financial difficulties. Hence, some of my school fees and schooling expenses were paid by Singapore government.

Fast forward 30 years, I am all grown up. My country is now facing an unprecedented catastrophe. Yet it is still the government who gives us masks to use and “pocket money” to help us tide over this difficult period.

When I collected my mask today, there was a sense of déjà vu. It felt like history was repeating itself.

In Singapore, many of us would have experienced SARS in 2003, H1N1 in 2009 and many years of haze from Indonesia. The most serious bout of haze was in 2015. The PSI shot to 417 on 20 October 2015. I couldn’t even see the block of flats opposite mine.

Based on good common sense, after experiencing disasters on such a scale, the common man should have prepared for a rainy day. If finances permit, every one of us should accumulate at least 6 months of masks, just in case disaster strikes again.

But most of us didn’t. We only hope it will not happen again. Yet such hope is a delusional thought because disasters will not vanish into the thin air because of mere hope.

Only our government prepares itself in the background.

Maybe some people think that their money can be better spent on more fun stuff, because the government will take care of us anyway. So there is some truth in the Chinese saying that a loving mother often leads to a good-for-nothing son.

In February this year, I proposed to a boss to manufacture masks and sell at reasonable prices locally. It would be an act of virtue.

He disagreed because China was recovering slowly and he presumed manufacturing volumes would resume normal in a couple of months. There would be little to profit from.

Boss, you got it wrong. It is April now, two months after your prediction and the world is facing mask shortage more than ever.

I do not blame you for not trusting me, but you have to realise this.

Singapore can enjoy excellence and prosperity in so many areas not just because of our strategic geographical location, but also because our pioneer government had always been on a “for the people” modus operani.

This has accumulated much virtues and blessedness hence like the Chinese saying says, we are reaping the benefits from the hard work of our forefathers.

It takes a lot of good fortune to be a boss for you control the incomes of many households. Hence, if you are a boss that only looks at numbers, and not the people, you are bound to experience betrayal and loneliness in your personal life.

【福宅：吉祥與災難之間】HOME OF GOOD FORTUNE
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這是我第一次，一入門就直接叫客人把玄關處那一堵牆給拆了，當然還有很多其他的改變。

我很詳細地向客人解釋我的理由 - 這是一間「無情陽宅」。

無情的陽宅，住在裡面的居者會心靈閉塞。

這樣的屋子不會發達，沒有生氣，沒有桃花，而我在門口時，就已嗅到屋子腐敗之氣，如一片爛掉的花叢。

❌ 不會發達 💸：
賺多少錢，就出多少錢，一直出狀況，導致頻頻破財。嚴重的，當然連錢都賺不到，還得向銀行或親戚朋友借錢。

財有如一隻無法下蛋的母雞一樣，生不出來。

❌ 沒有生氣 📉：
家庭成員在事業上沒有新突破，新創意，事業無法攀上新高峰，做著自己不喜歡的工作，沒機會升職或轉換部門嘗試新事項。小孩在學業上，無法自我管理，有大人監督才進步一丁點，沒大人監督就一塌糊塗。

❌ 沒有桃花 🌸：
人事上問題多，遇不到貴人。去應徵，得不到他人的賞識。在工作，小人居多，流言蜚語滿天飛。呈交給上頭的工作，也沒能獲得上司的肯定。見客時，往往自己佔下風，贏不到客人的擁護。

❌ 屋氣腐敗 💊：
病屋之相。家中必有人，常常生病，而且絕非小病。一病就是兩個禮拜，或得看專科、動手術才會好，或是得長手尾的病，如皮膚炎、胃痛、濕疹、背痛等。

實際影響有多深，就看個人八字當時的時運，生命磁向與屋子坐向是否配合，以及你和誰住在一起。

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一個人的日常作息若已出了問題，不是猛嗑保健品就會健康。

一座建築物地基沒打好，建得多漂亮，也無法支撐所有的人事物。

同樣的道理，一間家若是無情陽宅，你買一堆水晶吉祥物也無法堆積出旺的風水，再多的孩子玩具也不會有溫馨的感覺。別天真了。

屋子的有情和無情，決定了這個家庭的命運。一個家，沒有和氣，沒有歡樂，大人回到家，沒有得到心靈上的滋潤，便無法營造出一個有愛的家。

沒有愛的家，它的價值在哪裡？

屋子內外，風水要活潑生動，沒有沖剋就能和樂融融。氣和了，災難不臨，自然就能生財。

Richalle 是由出席我2016年第一場風水講座的出席者介紹，而來找我服務。在這裡，感謝她大方願意分享這見證，也感謝這位出席者多年來的支持。

客人家裡做了中型的裝修，這不過是剛開始的變化而已。

從居家環境打造出好的心靈風水，才能真正享受到甜蜜的家庭生活。

只要她全程照著我的話去做，她花在我身上的風水費必能回本，福德具足的話，說不定還能一本萬利呢！😄

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This is my first time entering a new client's home, and telling her to tear the wall at the entrance hall, amidst many other changes.

I explained my rationale to my client - this is a heartless abode.

Occupants of a heartless abode will have emotional blockages and a closed mind.

A house like this enjoy no prosperity, no growth, no Peach Blossom Luck. When I was at the doorstep, I could already smell the decaying Qi of the home, like a rotten flowerbed.

❌ No prosperity 💸:
Your expenses equal your income. Situations kept popping up and you just have to spend. For the serious cases, they can't even earn enough and have to resort to borrowing from friends, relatives and friends.

Their money are barren like the mother hen that cannot lay eggs...

❌No growth 📉:
The adults have no new breakthrough and creativity in their career. They are unable to reach a new peak. They do work that they do not enjoy, with no chance of being promoted or transferring to a different department to try a new job scope.

The children are unable to manage their studies on their own. They improve a teeny weeny bit under adult supervision, and fall into shambles when the adult is away.

❌ No Peach Blossom Luck 🌸:
The occupants face many inter-personal issues and no benefactor comes to their rescue. When they go for interviews, they do not get the appreciation from others. At work, they meet with more villains than they can handle. Rumours about them fly abound.

When they submit their work to their managers, they do not receive their desired endorsement. When they meet clients, they often find themselves at a disadvantageous position and unable to win the support of clients.

❌Decaying House‘s Qi 💊:
The sign of a home of sickness. There will be at least one occupant who will often fall sick, and the sickness will not be minor. E.g. falling sick for two weeks, needing to see a specialist, requiring an operation, or chronic illnesses like atopic dermatitis, gastric, eczema, back pain.

The extent of the acutal impact will depend on these factors:
1) The current luck of the occupant's Bazi
2) Compatibility of the occupant's Life Magnetic Direction and the house's sitting and facing directions
3) The occupant's personal good fortune and virtues
4) Who are living with the occupant

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If a person's daily lifestyle routine is already ridden with problems, swallowing pills and supplements is not going to magically make him/her healthy.

If the foundation of a building is laid poorly, regardless how beautiful the construction is, it will not be able to support all the people and things inside.

Going by the same principle, if a house is a merciless abode, you will not be able to Lego your way to good Feng Shui, by buying a ton of auspicious ornaments or a bunch of children's toys.

Don't be naive.

A family's destiny and future is determined by the whether the home is a merciless or affectionate house.

When there is no harmony of the qi, no joy and happiness prevalent in the house, the adults do not get nourished emotionally upon returning home.

Note, when the adults do not get fulfilled emotionally, they are unable to create a home of love.

Where is the value of a home, when there is no love?

The Feng Shui inside and outside of the house must be lively and without any clash in order to create a harmonious environment. With harmony and free from disaster, wealth and prosperity will naturally follow.

Richalle was recommended by my participant from my very first Feng Shui workshop in 2016. I am thankful that she is generous and willing to share her experience. I would also like to thank the workshop participant for his support all these years.

The client did a fair bit of renovation, and this positive outcome is only the beginning of more extraordinary change to come.

Start from your home environment to create soothing Feng Shui for your mental state of mind, and that will put you in the right track to a sweet family life, the real home sweet home.

As long as she sticks to my advice faithfully, she will definitely recoup the money spent on my Feng Shui audit. If her personal good fortune and virtues are sufficient, perhaps she can even profit massively in tangible and intangible ways with this small investment. 😄

我們都曉得，有幾部戲劇實在提倡「孝道」的，比如說《寶蓮燈》的沈香救母，劈華山救母，還有哪吒三太子的故事。這些故事都敘述了「孝道」的精神。

那為什麼要孝順父母呢？這其實根本不用問，因為如果沒有父母，怎麼會有我們？所以不能夠侍奉父母的人，她他絕對不會有感恩之心的。
沒有感恩的心就不會結出任何果實，在生活中所做的一切，無論是入世或出世，都不會得到加持力。

沒有感恩的心，會是什麼呢？猶如畜生的心。

因爲畜生是沒有心靈的。

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We know that there are a few drama serials that advocate the virtue of filial piety. For example, in the drama serial "Lotus Lantern", the male lead character Chen Siang levelled the Hua Mountains to save his Mother. Of course, there is also the story of Nezha who dismembered his bones and flesh to repay his parents. These stories teach us the spirit of filial piety.

Why should we be filial to our parents? This question should not even be asked in the first place. Without our parents, how can we even exist? Thus, a person who does not serve his or her parents will definitely not have a heart of gratitude.

Without gratitude, our effort will never reap any fruit of reward, be it worldly or non-worldly aspirations, no matter in what we do in life. We will not receive any empowerment or blessings if we are unfilial.

What would a person with no heart of gratitude be?

A beast. For a beast has no conscious heart.

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