Someone asks me on Clubhouse today 👉🏻 “How do you grow your Instagram account?”
💁🏻♀️If only I get a dollar every time someone asks that question. Anyway, here’s my quick answer:
1️⃣ Know your NICHE - meaning who are you are speaking to. Who do you want to attract? It’s not about having every Tom, Dick and Harry following you, just to boost that number of followers.
Be specific. What type of woman needs your content? What’s her burning pain? Desire? Dream?
How are you the person she would look up to? Or relate to?
Every single post & story should be INTENTIONALLY speaking to your avatar. Solve her problems. You can start by nailing your bio and sharing a mix of educational + inspirational content that speaks to her specific problems.
2️⃣ WORK WITH the algorithm. Understand what Instagram wants and how your post could reach more people. Don’t try to trick the algorithm - you’ll alway be playing catch-up. Also, the algorithm is not out to screw you. It’s ensuring the best experience for all the users.
Study hashtags, Google trend, TikTok and YouTube to see what specific topics in your niche are trending. In short, what does your niche want to see?
3️⃣ Raise your personal BRAND. See what everyone else in your industry is doing? Now, go the other direction. Stand apart.
Instead of chasing your followers and brand deals, learn what would ATTRACT them to you. Trust me, it’s a much more fun game to play.😌
Put your blinders on and just do you. Find your voice & share your story. Stay in your own lane & focus your energy on clearing your mental space. That’s how you can be creative. And that includes unfollowing people who doesn’t add value to your consumption. (Pro-tip: You can mute them if you’re friends with them 😆)
PS: I’m working on an IG Growth Bootcamp for those who wants to grow on IG. I want you to make progress - so there will be a small fee. Drop me a DM if you’re interested!
👏🏻👏🏻 Now action time. Which of these can you implement right away! Comment and let’s chat!
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what is chasing a woman 在 Pakar diari hati Facebook 的最讚貼文
Ustaz Datuk Kazim Elias ada share 4 punca kenapa satu-satu perkahwinan tu tak bahagia.
Sebab duit ke? Sebab rupa? Atau sebab agama semata?
1. Punca pertama ialah sebab semua benda isteri buat. Basuh baju isteri, kemas isteri, masak isteri. Sedangkan isteri ni cuma dituntut untuk layan suami je. Jadi, tak perlu ke isteri buat semua tu? Isteri solehah dia TOLONG buat kerja. Bantu sama membantu. Masing-masing kena faham erti tanggungjawab.
...Continue ReadingUstaz Datuk Kazim Elias has shared 4 reasons why the marriage is unhappy.
Because of money? Because of the look? Or just because of religion?
The first 1. reasons are because all the wives do. Wash wife's clothes, clean the wife, cook the wife. While the wife is only claimed to treat her husband. So, don't the wife have to do all that? His pious wife HELP him do the job. Help together help. Everyone needs to understand the meaning of responsibility.
Ustaz said it, the more husband feels easy to relax and do nothing, the easier he forgets his responsibility. It's not that you're going back to tell your husband ′′ You, starting today I don't want to wash the clothes what's all cooking
No no no.
Difficult things will be easy when you do it together. Don't be happy together. When it's difficult, it's just a couple. No no no 🙅🏻 ♀️🙅🏻 ♀️🙅🏻 ♀️
2. Second reasons why we don't understand the ATTITUDE of our own partners.
It's easy to take care of this man as Ustaz Kazim said.
1-Feed full food. Zahir and inner heart. May everything be considered a worship. Amen oh Lord.
2-Where the husband went, followed! Hahaha 😂
As long as you can follow, follow.
3. The third reason is because we don't accept that is our partner. Many people only appreciate someone and then someone dies. So it's not good to wait for your husband or wife to die and then to say, ′′ Nothing is like my husband / wife." 😢
We won't know our partner as long as we don't share the same house, sekatil, pillow with him. Even his parents won't know him as deep as we know him. That's why, the wife knows her husband than her mother she knows her.
But a smart man, a religious man, a pious woman will always consider that the partner is a GIFT.
There is a couple, be grateful. Because there are still many who still Allah doesn't grant his prayers for couple. So be thankful.
Not happy nowadays, want to get a partner who prays, who reads, whose living is not crafty. So if we get a partner like that, learn to appreciate even though she is not beautiful to boroi to what.
Hat boroi, tak lawa, no comey to anything, there is Allah nak test us, which one of us is the most LAUGHING. Choosing religion, overcomes everything.
4. The last one, the reason is when someone doesn't become happy with each other. Yee, learn to be a fun couple.
If our partner likes so much, so we try to give so much or more. The most important thing is to work, let the rest decide. God willing.
The Ustaz shared again, this disaster he came in 3 forms:
• EXAMS
• TERRIBLE
• BULLET
If we feel that in marriage we're always a disaster, let's see these three. Which one is actually that Allah wants to show.
The test is for the believers. He gave an example, Asiah who is pious married to the evil Pharoah. That's a test for him.
The one that Allah tests someone is soleh solehah, the prayer is not left, the recitation is not missing, the fasting is full but the years of not having a That's a test of his name. And this test is no other than to lift the position of taqwa and our faith higher. Be patient and be happy with Allah's test.
The second, the misfortune that mai in the form of reprimand. Allah sends this because Allah wants to tell us to return to the goodness.
For example, we are careless of chasing money here, rich here and there, papppp Allah gives an accident. Can't find the cause of sustenance anymore. That's a warning. Maybe we don't pray humble. We make worship but a lot of crafty. So, Allah wants to flick a little to give advice. Want to let us go back to Him. So, don't talk about Allah. Allah doesn't do anything in vain
The last thing is this disaster come in the form of bullet or punishment.
In this marriage, if we want peace, we have to learn to ACCEPT. Accept what Allah gives. Acceptance is our partner. Accept all Allah's tests.
If it's one moment later Allah tests it without sustenance for a long mate, no fortune to be with.
′′ If you still can, hold it well, if you can't, let it go well."
Always learn to steal husband / wife's heart. Learn to take all the rewards that Allah wants to give in marriage. Learn to be a person who thirsts for reward.
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what is chasing a woman 在 Pakar diari hati Facebook 的最讚貼文
📌 10 CARA MENJADI WANITA MATANG.
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1. Kurang Bercakap Dan Lebih Mendengar.
...Continue Reading📌 10 WAYS TO BE A MATANG WOMAN.
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1. Less Talk And More Listening.
Mature women listen more than talk.
Naturally we are born with a pair of ears and only one mouth and tongue...
′′ A silent voice ′′ is sometimes stronger than when we speak.
And you may not notice, but the most silent person in a room is the most ′′ loud ′′ person and could be the most ′′ powerful ′′ person too!
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2. No Empty Talk.
Mature women don't talk empty. But prefer to talk about things that benefit. Talking about an intellectual title.
Don't have time to debate with people who disagree with their actions.
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3. Learn from mistakes.
Mature women will always learn from mistakes. They will not repeat the same mistakes in life.
Not afraid to admit self mistakes. It's even easy to apologize.
To be me today, I have also made many mistakes in life. Yet we need to forgive ourselves. Leaving the unnecessary thing. Make peace with the past. And move on ok!
Don't say...
′′ I shouldn't marry a young age.." (e. g). Because everything that happens will surely have a blessing.
We are not ourselves today without all mistakes in life! Thank you to our past.
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4. Is Easier To Forgive
A mature woman is a calmer person and easy to forgive. Nothing really matter in this world.
Keeping a grudge is so blurred. It's so unnecessary. You will be happier when you can easily forgive.
Be a woman who is not easy to get hurt ok!
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5. Not Forcing Love
Owh yes! Mature women will not force love. Not chasing unrequited love. Don't waste time hoping for people who don't repay their love.
You will know how true love feels when the person who truly loves you comes in life.
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6. You Receive Destiny With Open Heart
Whether the test that comes is small... As small as a headache or heavy as having to face a very painful breakup in life.
You are now more accepting the destiny you are going through and handling it with grace and understanding and calmness than ever before.
Confident that everything that happens with Allah's permission is the best ever. Although we may feel it's so hard to have to cry for so long!
Sad and sick is ordinary. However with maturity we will be able to clean the ′′ wound ′′ itself. Rise again without blaming anyone.
Not easy, but just keep going....
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7. Not Easy to Judge
Not judgemental, what else is worse, thought of others easily. Always see the good in everyone.
Mature women are very humble. No matter how great we are, never underestimate others. Because everything we have is just a loan.
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8. Would Rather Be Silent Than A Fight That Doesn't Lead To Goodness
Mature women will know that fighting for unnecessary things is useless. If there are no kind words, silence is better.
Don't listen to what you don't need to
Don't look at the unnecessary.
Don't talk unnecessary talk.
Do not react to negativity.
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9. Know That Happiness Is Not In Other People's Hands
Mature women will not wish others to be happy. Enough only Allah. Hoping for humans will bring disappointment.
The Tahzan
Do not be sad.
Strong mature women are the ones who often smile during the test. Always accept and have a heart.
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10. Praying 5 Time
Because mature women know, prayer is the key to happiness. Crying not to humans anymore. But only to Allah the One.
Mature women don't ask man. But kneeling and asking for Allah alone.
Credits: the imperfections
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what is chasing a woman 在 Bubzvlogz Youtube 的最佳貼文
Hello Youtube Family,
New Ask Bubz episode! Surviving University, Going Against Parent’s Expectations & Advice for new moms!
It’s been FOREVER since we did an Ask Bubz episode! I asked you guys to send in your questions now let’s get to them. As always, some really great topics.
1. Do you think Ayla will be as chubby as Isaac?
2. Are you going to teach your kids Hakka?
3. Do you have hopes & ambitions for your children or let them go with the flow?
4. What are Isaac & Ayla’s Chinese names?
5. When will your new book be released?
6. How do you feel when you look back at your old comedy & makeup videos?
7. What kind of woman you hoping your daughter grows up to be?
8. Any updates on Pencils Of Promise (the 3 new schools we funded together)?
9. How did you do at university and how did you survive it?
10. What is your advice for new moms?
11. How did you cope with the dilemma of pleasing your parent’s wishes and chasing your own dreams?
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