關於 where are you now cause i'm thinking of you ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

Bertunang dan berkahwin ni nampak indah tapi realitinya hanya yang melalui je tahu. Siapa yang rancang nak bertunang tu, korang tengok ujian dan cabaran yang selalu orang bertunang hadap. Ikut dan hayati baik baik , yang mana buruk jadikan tauladan dan yang mana baik ambil sebagai pedoman 🌸

Situasi 1: DIUJI DENGAN MASALAH KEWANGAN
godaan: gunalah duit sikit untuk melabur. lepas dua tiga bulan dapat duit lebih, boleh guna tampung majlis. kahwin banyak pakai duit. kurang sike...
Continue ReadingGetting engaged and married looks beautiful but the reality is only those who know. Whoever plans to get engaged, look at the tests and challenges that people always get engaged in. Follow and appreciate good good, which is bad make an example and which is better take as a guideline 🌸

Situation 1: TESTED WITH FINAL PROBLEMS
Temptation: use some money to invest. After two three months of earning extra money, you can use the event. Married a lot with money. Just a little less now. later can replace more

IMPORTANT NOTE: make sure the ready-kept marriage money is not teased by side. If you have extra money, you can use it. But if that money is enough for marriage needs. It's good to prioritize the important thing, discuss with your partner to decide. There's one case, regretting myself because of using dowry money to join the business, at last, I didn't get money Wedding has to be tough

Situation 2. PRESENTATION OF UNLIMITED GUEST (ex)
temptation: i love you again. If I propose to you? I'm waiting for you. I'm willing to wait for you until you divorce and etc

IMPORTANT REMINDER: why did she become an ex? because she is EXperienced! let go and start! Appreciate those who appreciate more. if it wasn't a good love before. it's time to prove we can be the best love! Let go.. start a new story that can be the most beautiful story for children and grandchildren. God willing.

Situation 3: TESTED WITH ATTITUDE
temptation: suddenly engagement becomes too sensitive, angry, less patient

IMPORTANT NOTE, when you want to marry. Definitely putting us in a stressful level. Because there's a lot of things to think about, settled. Added to the feeling of commitment (feeling like a husband, wife), so he becomes more care. Simple things become complicated. The devil has added a dose to cancel the good things. It's getting more exploding! Patience.. this time everyone has to play a role. You won't settle things in anger. Invite to pray, to study. take ablution. When two two are calm. Discuss without emotion. the important thing is. Remember the original intention! Married because of Allah. Look at the problem. Discuss the discharge. Don't focus on the cause. lower your ego and learn to accept and listen. insyaAllah will be better than before fighting.

Situation 4: TESTED WITH HOUBT
temptation: do you want to marry him? but why?. don't you feel young anymore? Many more ambitions to achieve? Are you ready to be a wife? and etc

This one is all natural. Married because I want to accept Allah. If you want to chase the world, until when will we stop chasing? maybe we die running after him. Stop thinking negatively! No one is ready. The most important thing is try to be ready. Seek knowledge (read books, talk and others). Is it a question that I can't be a wife or a daughter that's the experience. Repair from mistakes. example, cooking is not delicious, after this fix the cooking. We won't be perfect. But we can work hard, right? Change the mindset!

Temptation II: is it true that I want to marry him. If you want to say (rich or handsome or good or good or....) that A person looks better than my fiance
* istigfar. back with the original intention. Married because of what? This is a partner even though we clearly see the shortcomings, his weaknesses, we can't hate. even though her face may be full of acne and others. We feel calm looking at it. When you fight, you still feel like being together. Praying to Allah so that the love of him will be stronger, the love of Allah is stronger

Situation 5. PRESSURE OF FAMILY & FAMILY OF FUTURE HUSBAND

Temptation: When you know the family of future couples, setting up dowry, etc, there may be a terrible sense of their decision.

No matter what, we don't judge someone too quickly while we don't know them completely.
Family, feeling hearted in the family, starting to feel right to my mother-in-law will like me, is it true that my brother-in-law will be willing to me, this is all from the devil who always haunts us to cancel our good intentions

Situation 6. STARTING TO BE CAREFUL

After all sorts of tests came over, some of them started to give up and weren't interested in continuing the engagement period.

Survey first the cause of giving heart and try to solve it as long as you can.

Situation 7. EMOTIONS ARE NOT STABILOUS

Some are not happy to sit down when tying the engagement rope. Sometimes sad, angry, too happy, and some keep thinking of his fiance while some have long known his own heart.

When you're friends, you might not feel how serious this relationship is, and how committed you are to a marriage that's about to happen. So, maybe this reason makes you restless and anxious.

Situaso 8. AFRAID OF WRONG DECISION

Temptation: Between phobia and challenges during engagement, some start to show up the real 'attitude'. So, you start to feel doubtful about your choice.

According to Suzana Ghazali, a Syarie Family Psychology Consultant, the Islamic Family Law decides that an individual can obtain a replacement if an engagement is decided by the other side without a strong reason.

Thus, you deserve to receive any form of your gift to her, especially if you spent a lot of money on a wedding to be held.

Situation 9. JEALOUS BLIND

Oh yes, sometimes there are people who suddenly get too jealous and always want to control their fiance's movement. This is a challenge when engagement is common.

While this man is not yet entitled to be obeyed by the woman before pronouncing the marriage ceremony. So is a woman who doesn't have the right to ask for any form of burden from the man.

However, as a Muslim, we must keep our friendship even where we are, whether we are engaged or not

Situation 10. BUSY OF WEDDING MARRIAGE

Busy ahead of wedding ceremony! In the last moment, it's not impossible that it doesn't go as planned. However, this is beyond our control.

Challenges during engagement among them can happen technical mistakes in quotations, change in ceremony, wedding dresses don't fit or wrong sewing, and more

p / s: just share good intentions, want to be halal. It's not easy, there are many challenges that have to be taken before the legal bond.
Want to get married right. whatever it is, every test. Seek Allah! The test is a sign that we need to be stronger with God. May this sharing be blessed. May Allah accept it. Actually, as Muslims, we have to believe that all the challenges during engagement that come are from Allah, as a test to His servants.

Therefore, no matter what the challenges when engaged happen, we should always accept and ask for help from the Almighty. Truly, Allah knows more about something we don't know.

In addition, try to get closer to Allah before we set foot in the household, in preparation of being the leader and mentor of the family institutions that will be established.

As in surah Al-Imran verse 54:

′′ And They Plan, Allah also plans, And ALLAH is the best Planner ′′

📸: Elshaa NatashaaTranslated

Guys. I really don't know how else to remind you to stay home and stop meeting people you don't live with. It's not about meeting multiple small groups of people at different times of the week and it being "okay" because it's less than 10 people.

In case you haven't noticed, the curve has been exponentially rising in Singapore. And these are not just imported cases. The number of unlinked local cases are growing each day. Just because we're not officially locked down doesn't mean you can flirt with the guidelines. It just means that the government has considered that locking down will bring the economy into an even quicker freefall without solving the problem of rate of infection, among other delicate repercussions that I won't go into here because if you're woke enough, dozens of other people have already written about it and made their pleas to ask you to stay home.

Just go read about what happened when India suddenly locked down over night. Or the people stories coming out from Malaysia of who suffers on the fringes when lockdown happens.

Those of us who are privileged middle and upper class who have the option of multiple comforts should we be forced to stay home really need to remember that this is not about us.

Of course no one believes they are going to be the one to start a cluster. Do you think the principal of that particular sparkletots preschool went to work thinking she was going to be part of a cluster of 26 positive cases? And what makes you think she was solely responsible? What if she was infected by a family member but those cases were only discovered after her?

Just because you don't think it will happen to you doesn't mean you get to be socially irresponsible.

We are believers, yes. We receive and stand on the word of God and His promise of protection, yes. But it doesn't give us the right to be irresponsible and dishonoring of government regulations in a time such a this. Like I said, "my gathering was less than 10 people" is not respecting the rule but flirting with the rule.

Please think of the parents whose 5 year old needed to get tested for Covid-19 because she had pneumonia, the breastfeeding mom who has to be separated from her child because either of them tests positive or simply because of quarantine, the health care workers who also have family and are so afraid to even touch or hug their own children because they are afraid that they are next.

Please look at this curve and understand that while we have an excellent health care system, when the majority of the finite resources in your system is directed to addressing this singular cause, there will come a breaking point where it will mean less resources for everyone else going through anything else in this same window. If you get into an accident. The cancer patients. Anyone else who needs the ICU. Ventilators. Respirators.

There is so much more I can say. But so many others have already said it. Have made their pleas. So please if there's anything to stay woke about right now, stay informed. Be responsible. Stay at home. I don't care if you're an extrovert or a social butterfly. Can you just please don't meet friends in real life for a few weeks. I promise you that you won't die. But if you meet them, the probability of someone dying, be it yourself, someone you know, or someone they know, increases exponentially.

Don't just look at the measures and the delicate balance that the government is trying so hard to maintain and think to yourself that as long as we haven't gone to dorscon red that it is "not that bad yet". The government is trying to reason with us believing that we can be socially responsible adults that will know the right thing to do. But they think too highly of us. Many people are still acting like teenagers who need to be grounded to their rooms and given consequences for their actions.

Please. Stay. Home. (Yes I know we all need to eat and get food and run quick errands and get some fresh air downstairs. I'm referring to intentionally meeting any groups of friends/family or strangers for a prolonged span of time when it is neither crucial or necessary to do so). Any other option is selfish and irresponsible.

Can't stress enough on how we all need to remind ourselves to be socially responsible in such times. It takes all of us, not just some of us, if we are to lower the numbers and flatten the curve. Jia you, Singapore!

Guys. I really don't know how else to remind you to stay home and stop meeting people you don't live with. It's not about meeting multiple small groups of people at different times of the week and it being "okay" because it's less than 10 people.

In case you haven't noticed, the curve has been exponentially rising in Singapore. And these are not just imported cases. The number of unlinked local cases are growing each day. Just because we're not officially locked down doesn't mean you can flirt with the guidelines. It just means that the government has considered that locking down will bring the economy into an even quicker freefall without solving the problem of rate of infection, among other delicate repercussions that I won't go into here because if you're woke enough, dozens of other people have already written about it and made their pleas to ask you to stay home.

Just go read about what happened when India suddenly locked down over night. Or the people stories coming out from Malaysia of who suffers on the fringes when lockdown happens.

Those of us who are privileged middle and upper class who have the option of multiple comforts should we be forced to stay home really need to remember that this is not about us.

Of course no one believes they are going to be the one to start a cluster. Do you think the principal of that particular sparkletots preschool went to work thinking she was going to be part of a cluster of 26 positive cases? And what makes you think she was solely responsible? What if she was infected by a family member but those cases were only discovered after her?

Just because you don't think it will happen to you doesn't mean you get to be socially irresponsible.

We are believers, yes. We receive and stand on the word of God and His promise of protection, yes. But it doesn't give us the right to be irresponsible and dishonoring of government regulations in a time such a this. Like I said, "my gathering was less than 10 people" is not respecting the rule but flirting with the rule.

Please think of the parents whose 5 year old needed to get tested for Covid-19 because she had pneumonia, the breastfeeding mom who has to be separated from her child because either of them tests positive or simply because of quarantine, the health care workers who also have family and are so afraid to even touch or hug their own children because they are afraid that they are next.

Please look at this curve and understand that while we have an excellent health care system, when the majority of the finite resources in your system is directed to addressing this singular cause, there will come a breaking point where it will mean less resources for everyone else going through anything else in this same window. If you get into an accident. The cancer patients. Anyone else who needs the ICU. Ventilators. Respirators.

There is so much more I can say. But so many others have already said it. Have made their pleas. So please if there's anything to stay woke about right now, stay informed. Be responsible. Stay at home. I don't care if you're an extrovert or a social butterfly. Can you just please don't meet friends in real life for a few weeks. I promise you that you won't die. But if you meet them, the probability of someone dying, be it yourself, someone you know, or someone they know, increases exponentially.

Don't just look at the measures and the delicate balance that the government is trying so hard to maintain and think to yourself that as long as we haven't gone to dorscon red that it is "not that bad yet". The government is trying to reason with us believing that we can be socially responsible adults that will know the right thing to do. But they think too highly of us. Many people are still acting like teenagers who need to be grounded to their rooms and given consequences for their actions.

Please. Stay. Home. (Yes I know we all need to eat and get food and run quick errands and get some fresh air downstairs. I'm referring to intentionally meeting any groups of friends/family or strangers for a prolonged span of time when it is neither crucial or necessary to do so). Any other option is selfish and irresponsible.

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Lyrics:

Tell me what you do
告訴我你在做什麼
When you’re not thinking bout me
當你沒有想我的時候
Where you even goin? Are you out?
你要去哪裡？要出去嗎？
Are you happy?
你開心嗎？
Tell me how’s your mom
你媽媽的身體還好吧
Does she still ask about me?
她有沒有問起我
Ask about me ya?
詢問我的情況
I know she liked me
我知道她喜歡我

Never pay attention to you
從沒在意你
Can’t believe I wasn’t
難以置信我沒有
Taking you to places that we love to go together
帶你去我們都喜歡的地方
Now I really get it
現在我到了
These things never last forever
這些事物轉瞬即逝
Should have took time to love you
如果我曾經好好愛你

Now I do all thе right things, with all the wrong people
現在我做著一切該做的事情 可惜我身邊不再是你
All I еver wanted was you
從始至終我都希望是你
If everything’s changed why do I feel the same
如果物是人非 為什麼我還感覺和以前一樣
I’m still falling for you
我仍然愛著你

Yeah you got me where you want me yeah
我承認我被你吃得死死的
Sleeping through the morning cause I stayed up
一夜未眠的我睡到了中午
Feeling like a bad dream that I can’t wake up from
就像一個醒不來的噩夢
Yeah you got me yeah you got me where you want me
我承認我的心早就在你那裡了
All I had to, all i had to say was sorry yeah
千言萬語只剩道歉
I’ve been on edge and i can’t calm down
我處在崩潰的邊緣無法冷靜
Sitting on this bed that we both made ours
依然躺在我們曾經共眠的床榻之上
Yeah you got me, yeah u got me where you want me
我承認我整顆心都在你身上
All I had to do was say I’m sorry
我能做的就只剩道歉了

Walking up the stairs
爬上樓梯
I got pictures all around me
看著滿屋的照片
Bringing up the pain that i tried to bury so deep
我試圖深埋的悲傷再次湧現
When I see ur face
當我看見你的臉龐
I remember it’s because of me
我明白都是因為我
It’s because of me
都是我的錯

Now I do all the right things, with all the wrong people
現在我和錯誤的人做著正確的事
All I ever wanted was you
從始至終我想要的唯你一人罷了
If everything’s changed why do I feel the same
如果時過境遷為什麼我感覺昨天就在眼前
I’m still falling for you
我依然愛你

Yeah you got me where you want me yeah
你從我這得到了你想要的
Sleeping through the morning cause I stayed up
一夜未眠的我睡到了中午
Feeling like a bad dream that I can’t wake up from
就像一個醒不來的噩夢
Yeah you got me yeah you got me where you want me
你把我吃得死死的
All I had to, all i had to say was sorry yeah
千言萬語只剩道歉
I’ve been on edge and i can’t calm down
我處在崩潰的邊緣無法冷靜
Sitting on this bed that we both made ours
依然躺在我們曾經共眠的床榻之上
Yeah you got me, yeah you got me where you want me
我的心早就在你那裡了
All I had to do to say I’m sorry
我能說的就只剩道歉了

I wish I could tell you that I miss you right now
多想現在就告訴你我想你了
I just wanna I just wanna fix it right now
我想修補我破碎的心

Yeah you got me, yeah u got me where you want me
可我的心早就隨你而去了
All I had to do to say I’m sorry
我能說的就只剩遺憾了

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Sunrise with you on my chest
No blinds in the place where I live
Daybreak open your eyes
'Cause this was only ever meant to be for one night
Still, we're changing our minds here
Be yours, be my dear
So close with you on my lips
Touch noses, feeling your breath
Push your heart and pull away, yeah
Be my summer in a winter day love
I can't see one thing wrong
Between the both of us
Be mine, be mine, yeah
Anytime, anytime

Ooh, you know I've been alone for quite a while
haven't I? I thought I knew it all
Found love but I was wrong
More times than enough
But since you came along
I'm thinking baby

You are bringing out a different kind of me
There's no safety net that's underneath, I'm free
Falling all in
You fell for men who weren't how they appeared, yeah
Trapped up on a tightrope now we're here, we're free
Falling all in you
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想要和你低空飛行
和你到處收集氧氣
假如迷霧你看不清
不如墜入我的心裡
想帶你從吵鬧到安寧
想帶你從多雲到轉晴
想要為你整理襯衣
為你到處收集詩句
又過了每晚給你熱牛奶的時間
床頭還寫著我們沒看完的影片
離開後的時間裡你是否還失眠
從不熬夜的我也明顯黑了眼圈
你送的玩偶依然陪在身邊
記憶出現浮現從開始到終點 又重演

我想和你 一起闖進森林潛入海底
我想和你 一起看日出到日落天氣
我想和你穿過格林威治和時間飛行
我想見你 穿過教堂和人海擁抱你
我想和你
我想和你

VLOG UPDATE WEEK 16 - Commitment To Your Goal

As i type this, i'm now less than 2 weeks out to comp. Everything is slowly falling in place. These days the main thing now is focus. In the words of Azizul Hasni Awang The Keirin World Champion - he told me to remember every single training I have done and that will help motivate me as the comp date gets closer.

Commitment to your goal is so important and I don't mean it from just a fitness perspective but in every aspect of life. From something as simple as waking up early or even brushing your teeth, sending a text to your loved ones to tell them where you are... these are all commitments. You do it cause you have to.

I'll honest - its silly - but I do get emotional, thinking of the hours i've put in for training. The amount i have spent on food, petrol, getting from place to the next, sacrificing certain things so I can focus on comp. There's a smile at the corner of my mouth as I think about all the things that have happened since the 1st of Jan.

With the little time i have left, I'm pretty happy how my body is coming in. Cause there are lines I've never seen before, at my abs, at my shoulders... it's truly fascinating to see this present which is yourself unfold.


Costume
Please do not do what I did if this is your first comp and get your comp to the last minute. I'm happy that the backup costume came in time, I've got my friend Nila to help me tailor the costume, i found my white wedge shoe... I'm fortunate where I'm able to spend a bit more on my costume. By right I would love to save some money but at the same time, I rather put what I can afford into this comp. Hence making sure I look the part and I look good. I've already gone this far, it would be such a waste, if I didn't give everything I have.

Nutrition has changed slightly. From 1650 i'm now at 1550 with a macro breakdown of Protein 60% Fat 30% Carb 10%. I know it does look crazy low, but honestly i'm doing ok with the food. Nutrition i can handle, what I can't handle is not getting enough rest.

Rest is crucial for anyone who was to lose fat and weight. Lack of sleep will cause you to bloat , your stress hormone cortisol goes up and it'll disturb the digestive system.

Next week, will be my final Vlog Prep for this Journey To Comp Series. Very excited, as butterflies fly in my tummy and mind. Good night everyone and thank you again for following my journey!