「追求幸福,錯了嗎!?」
早安~你對幸福的定義是什麼呢?
來看 #BBC 打破對幸福的迷思
🌼Why our pursuit of happiness may be flawed
人生就該追求幸福快樂嗎?
💓想從生活中得到什麼?近來你應該有機會、也有理由問自己這個問題。也許你想花更多時間與家人在一起,或者想找一份更有成就感和安全感的工作,或者想改善健康狀況。不過,人為何有這些需求呢?
What do you want from life? You’ve probably had the opportunity and the cause to ask yourself that question recently. Perhaps you want to spend more time with your family, or get a more fulfilling and secure job, or improve your health. But why do you want those things?
🍀Chances are that your answer will come down to one thing: happiness. Our culture’s fixation on happiness can seem almost religious. It is one of the only reasons for action that doesn’t stand in need of justification: happiness is good because being happy is good. But can we build our lives on that circular reasoning?
答案可能歸結為一件事:幸福。
在我們的文化中,對幸福的執著幾乎是宗教性的。這是唯一不需要辯解的行動理由:快樂是有益的,無需原因。可是,人生能建立在這種循環推理的基礎上嗎?
🌸Considering the importance of the question, there’s remarkably little data on what people want from life. A survey in 2016 asked Americans whether they would rather "achieve great things or be happy" and 81% said that they would rather be happy, while only 13% opted for achieving great things (6% were understandably daunted by the choice and weren’t sure). Despite the ubiquity of happiness as a goal, it’s hard to know how to define it or how to achieve it.
這個問題很重要。可惜,對於人們想從生活中獲得什麼這方面的研究數據非常少。在2016年的一項調查中,當美國人被問及,希望「獲得偉大的成就還是獲得快樂」時,81%的人選擇「快樂」,只有13%的人選擇偉大的成就。可以理解的是,6%的人被這個選擇嚇到了,表示不確定。儘管幸福快樂是普世目標,但人們很難知道如何定義或者如何實現它。
🌷Yet more and more aspects of life are judged in terms of their contribution to the phantom of happiness. Does your relationship, your job, your home, your body, your diet make you happy? If not, aren’t you doing something wrong? In our modern world, happiness is the closest thing we have to a summum bonum, the highest good from which all other goods flow. In this logic unhappiness becomes the summum malum, the greatest evil to be avoided. There is some evidence that the obsessive pursuit of happiness is associated with a greater risk of depression.
生活中越來越多的因素被用來衡量幸福感,比如說人際關係、工作、家庭、身體、飲食等等…… 這些都能讓你快樂嗎?如果不能,是不是做錯了什麼?在現代世界,幸福是我們所擁有的最接近「至善」的東西,是所有其他事物的源頭。在這樣的邏輯下,不快樂成了「至惡」,是要避免的最大邪惡。有證據表明,對幸福的追求越過分,產生憂鬱的風險就越大。
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Continue ReadingA middle-aged girl who cycles come to sell snacks every morning with a sincere smile. A little bag of sweets along the way from ′′ Khun Yuwan has ail ′′ or ′′ Aunt Pom ′′ waiting for people to buy small corners. Many to many, many to overlook. There is inspiration and strength hidden. Today we will take to know Aunt Pom deeply. Why every hardship doesn't make Aunt Fort's smile lessen ❤
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′′ In the past, when the bubble era, the aunt was a housewife to clean, but the company shut down. So the aunt lost his job. It's very rare. No one could apply. We saw the vendor, so I thought I wanted to try to sell, but I thought I would sell the candy. Sweet because we like to eat sweets and around here we don't have many people to sell too ′′
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There is no impasse in real life. When applying for jobs, there is no one to recreate anything. The other way of ′′ Aunt Pom ′′ and even another choice is new for aunty. But many more precious lives are waiting for you, so I have to fight until the end. The way.
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′′ At first, I didn't know how to snack. I lived reading books and watching on television. How to do it. Two things at a time. I started selling on the first day. There are many people who sold out. I have to keep supporting but I don't have money. Keep it because I have to raise 4 grandchildren. It's a month that I spend ten thousands. Because I send them to study. It's very difficult. But because of the grandchildren, they are still supporting me to sell every day. ′′
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If your heart is enough, it's not the heart of the happiness in life. Waking up at a.m. to make a snack, selling and leaving the house with a bike in the rain. Doesn't make this strong woman's patience reduce because every time I sell ′′ Aunt Pom. ′′ Carrying a very sincere smile to everyone 👍🏻
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′′ Our life is tough because we don't have a chance to be educated. When we have a way to make money, we want to spend all the money to give grandchildren to have a good future. Ask them whether they are tired or not. It's already exhausting. But I go home to see About to have a good future. I'm encouraged to do it. ′′ 🥰
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A little bag of sweet treats that seem to be addicted to customers around here. Especially from seeing the eyes of customers who come to support us. We know that all customers don't come to support aunts with pity, but with the taste of sweet taste of ′′ Tohot ′′ (( 10 baht) The yellow, bright, clean, looks like the customer's favorite menu, followed by ′′ Bua floating ′′ (10 baht) that is ancient, authentic, fit, tummy, powder, looks like it fits. It's like it's a lot of things. People or for those who like to eat lightly, there is a ′′ green bean snack ′′ (10 baht) that is boiled until it's ripe. 😋
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Aunt Pom told me that snack may be a little bit homey, but I put it in every pattern. It's detailed for cleanliness and taste that is not too sweet. For those who come to support, I have a good health. 😍
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Not too long ago, desserts on Aunt Pom's little bike are gone. When you go home, you still have a bright smile, no glance of undefeated eyes. At all, Auntie kicks off the bike home to make us realize that every step of the way you walk is a life that makes you live. With the future of the nation, there are 4 people and the important thing that we have learnt from aunt is that no matter what life encounters, if our heart chooses to smile and fight with it happily. We are tired. We will get through it. 😊
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why is happiness not a choice 在 Azizan Osman Facebook 的最讚貼文
Jam 10:58pm
Hari dah malam
Ducky nak tidur dah...
Kata hati ...
Malam ni sepi tapi indah
Ducky rindukan mak ayah di kampung ...
Tapi Ducky beringat
Walaupun Ducky takut, tapi IMPIAN Ducky lebih penting dan lebih besar dari ketakutan yang Ducky perlu harungi
Sebab Ducky dah janji dan berniat nak berikan kehidupan yang lebih baik buat mak dan ayah dan adik beradik di kampung
Itu JANJI Ducky 💪
Ducky dah penat melihat mereka susah, semakin hari usia meningkat, semakin susah kehidupan mereka
Sebab tu
Ducky menghilangkan diri seketika dari kampung
Ducky dengar Pendekar RichWorks bersama Dr Azizan Osman boleh bantu orang seperti Ducky
Jadi Ducky pun bertekad
Ducky sanggup curi-curi naik flight bersama Pendekar RichWorks
Menyorok di dalam beg mereka
Menyamar di celah-celah ranting dan pokok
Menumpang makan di Four Seasons
Dan menyamar diri sebagai perhiasan di dewan kuliah
Apa sahaja Ducky sanggup buat hanya nak dengar kata-kata seorang MenThor yang telah bantu ramai usahawan berjaya
Ducky hanya nak rasa secebis dari kemanisan kejayaan itu
Ducky tak salah kan?
Walaupun ragu-ragu, Ducky tiada pilihan
Yang penting bagi Ducky
ILMU, BIMBINGAN & MENTHOR
Ducky nak berjaya
Sebelum tidur Ducky teringat untuk berdoa, Ducky baru belajar di kuliah tadi
“Segala pujian bagi Tuhan sekalian alam
Izinkan saya melupakan segala kesedihan dan tekanan untuk seketika
Saya tak selalu betul, mohon maaf di atas salah dan silap, semoga saya diberi peluang melihat keindahan dunia lagi esok hari
Bersihkan hati saya dengan rasa kesyukuran
Halalkan rezeki dan usaha saya
Lindungi keluarga dan orang tersayang saya
Berikan Kekayaan, Kejayaan, Kesihatan, Kebahagiaan & Keberkatan kepada semua
Saya doakan ramai orang capai impian dan hasrat mereka dan saya doakan mereka Kaya & Berjaya di dunia dan di akhirat”
Selamat malam dunia ku
Saya nak mimpi-mimpi indah malam ni
Jumpa esok ... 😴 💤
#Ducky
At 10:58 pm
Day is already night
Ducky is about to sleep...
Says the heart...
Tonight is quiet but beautiful
Ducky misses mom in the village...
But Ducky is sweating
Though Ducky is scared, but Ducky's DREAM is more important and bigger than the fear that Ducky needs to be harungi
Because Ducky promised and intends to give a better life to mom and dad and siblings in the village
That's a Ducky PROMISE 💪
Ducky is tired of seeing them so hard, the days of age increase, the harder their life is
That's why
Ducky disappeared for a while from the village
Ducky listening to Warrior RichWorks with Dr Azizan Osman can help people like Ducky
So Ducky is determined too
Ducky is willing to take a flight with Warrior RichWorks
Hiding in their bags
Disguised in twigs and trees
Hitting a meal at Four Seasons
And disguising myself as jewelry in the lecture hall
Whatever Ducky is willing to do just want to hear the words of a MenThor who has helped many entrepreneurs succeed
Ducky just wants to feel a little bit of the sweetness of that success
Ducky ain't wrong right?
Even in doubt, Ducky has no choice
What's important for Ducky
KNOWLEDGE, GUIDANCE & MENTHOR
Ducky wants to succeed
Before sleeping Ducky remembers praying, Ducky just learned in college earlier
′′ All praise to the Lord of the worlds
Let me forget all sadness and stress for a while
I'm not always right, sorry for wrong and wrong, may I be given a chance to see the beauty of the world again tomorrow
Clean my heart with gratitude
Keep my fortune and effort
Protect my family and love ones
Give Wealth, Success, Health, Happiness & Blessings to all
I pray that many people achieve their dreams and desires and I pray for them to be Rich & Successful in this world and in the hereafter ′′
Good night my world
I want sweet dreams tonight
See you tomorrow... 😴 💤
#DuckyTranslated
why is happiness not a choice 在 alanreborn79 Youtube 的最讚貼文
This Mind Movie is focused on “Believing in Yourself”. Mind Movies are short videos filled with positive affirmations, inspiring visual images and motivating music. By watching this mind movie, it will assist in a reprograming our subconscious mind (just like updating the OS system in our brain). The process is called “visualization” and is applied by many of the world's most successful people - from CEOs and billionaires to athletes and musicians – to fuel their life with power and get their mind to perform at their peak each day.
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It doesn’t matter what you do. It matters who you are.
You’re perfect when you’re comfortable being yourself.
Pleasure is always derived from something outside you, whereas you arises from within.
It’s never too late to take a leap of faith and see what will happen – and to brave in life.
What makes you different is what makes you beautiful.
Life is too short to worry what others say about you.
Listen. Pay attention. Treasure every moment.
Nothing is impossible; the word itself says I’m possible!
You can’t let your failures define you. You have to let your failures teach you.
Never give up on something you love.
Never listen to anybody that tries to discourage you.
When something is important enough, you do it even if the odds are not in your favour.
Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.
Smile and let everyone know that today you’re a lot stronger than you were yesterday.
A lot of people are afraid to say what they want. That’s why they don’t get what they want.
Live as if you were to die tomorrow…Learn as if you were to live forever.
Knowing is not enough; We must apply…Willing is not enough; We must do.
Setting goals is the first step in turning the invisible into the visible.
You are ready and able to do beautiful things in this world.
You don’t learn to walk by following the rules, you learn by doing and by falling over.
If you are not happy, you can become happy. Happiness is a choice.
They are so many great things in life; why dwell on negativity?
One day, the people that didn’t believe in you will tell everyone how they met you.
#GoodVibesOnly #BelieveAndAchieve #StayPositive
why is happiness not a choice 在 WE5-Shibaland Youtube 的最讚貼文
這是我們每天的日常(其實片段是幾年前拍下的,Yobi自上年已經爬不上樓梯了)。我們每天外出,我都要無數次重複自己的理念:「不是不讓大家拍照,只希望您能夠先問一聲!」。尤其是在狗狗上廁所、我在清潔、我拿著屎屎去屎桶的時候。調過來,同樣事情發生在您身上,您又作何感想呢?當然大家亦有自己的選擇,但我可以有自己的選擇嗎?!
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大家都經常掛在口邊要講「初衷」、「原則」、「堅持」,我有啊!但為何我不讓您拍照,而我又變成仆街呢?!當我阻止大家拍照和解釋我的理念,大家可能會感到被冒犯甚至不悅,但首先大家有冇理會過我的感受先呢?我阻止第一個和解釋的時候,會好聲好氣;但到第十個、第二十個,我不是機械人、我都有情緒.....
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希望大家不要合理化拍照這回事,這不是什麼人權或自由,這是禮貌和尊重的事!大家經常都說台灣、日本當地人很有人情味很有禮貌,那我們自己的人情味往那裏去了呢?只去嚮往他人的,而自己又不去改變的,那這世界走落去會怎麼樣呢?不知自從那天起,很多人都只會在網上聊天,而人對人、面對面,就只會拿着手機過活,大家有幾多時候已經沒有再關心過身邊的人呢..... ?亦有些朋友可能遭到拒絕而感到不悅,在網絡上誣捏我會收人錢,$20/$50/$100不等,才可以影狗狗;但亦有無數的朋友可以作證,他們都跟狗狗拍過照,不用付款,只需要問一聲!不知情的朋友亦會相信自己選擇去相信的,實在無奈..... 如果認真便真的死了!我絕不介意跟大家分享,只希望大家能與人多一點關心、交流和溝通!
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This’s Our Daily Life (Btw, the clips were taken few years ago, and Yobi ain’t able to climb up the staircase since last year). Meanwhile we go out everyday, I have to repeat thousands of times : “It ain’t about NO PHOTO, but Please Ask Before U Snap”. Especially when doggies they pee/poo, when am cleaning after, when am carrying tons of pops. Try to imagine, what if the same shit is happening to yourself, how U feel?! U may have ur own perception/choice, but can I have mine?!
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People did study “May I?!”, “Would U mind?!” at school, but how come I stop U taking a photo and then I became impossible?! When I stop people taking a photo, try to explain why, and they may probably feel bad or offensive, but actually did people care how I feel the first place?! Am truly calm and patience when I stop and explain to the first one or second one, but when I talk to the tenth, the twentieth, I feel very very annoyed and pissed off..... Am not a robot, I have my emotion too. This ain’t sorts freedom or human rights, but courtesy and respect!
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Many people say they feel a lot the warmness and friendliness of the people when visiting TaiWan and Japan, but where is ours then?! I don’t know since when, people do communicate on social media’s, but they won’t talk to people face to face and became mute and deaf, for how long we didn’t care people around?!
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I never mind to share the happiness of the pack with people, am just expecting more and more people shall get engaged positively! They 5 are having photos with numerous people everyday, a reward to those people whom did ask for one politely!
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*拍照前請先打招呼詢問一下哦
*拍照前請先注意交通安全哦
*狗狗上廁所時請不要拍照哦
*我清理和拿著狗狗便便時請不要拍照哦
*摸狗狗前請先問一下
*我們鼓勵人與人之間應該多聯繫
*打個招呼拍拍照何樂而不為
*PleaseGreetAndAskBeforeYouSnap
*PleasePayAttentionToTrafficBeforeYouSnap
*PleaseDoNotSnapWhenDoggiesPeeAndPoo
*PleaseDoNotSnapWhenAmCleaningAndCarryingTheirPoops
*PleaseAskBeforeYouPat
*WeAreEncouragingHumanEngagement
*NothingToLooseToSayHi
why is happiness not a choice 在 Bubzvlogz Youtube 的最佳解答
Hello Youtube Family,
Today’s Vlog:
Baby finds it hilarious,
But I’m hungry!
Catching the sunset,
Reunited with family,
Tattoo fail
Hope you enjoy today's vlog. Slowly catching up on footage!! Yey!!!
Regarding the Late article, I was not talking about people who are late for their own personal choices. Not people who genuinely have circumstances or one offs. I think we all know these people exist (people who are routinely late by choice) whether they mean harm or not. It makes a difference between people who really try to make an effort versus people who don't. A person's willingness to at least try to make effort to be on time actually really does show a lot. This is why being on time is so important to businesses. It creates trust. What are your thoughts? Do you have this type of friend? Some of my really good friends are routinely late and it drives me nuts and I always end up telling them reservations are 8pm instead of 8.30pm to combat the situation XD
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