Whoever that says the middle child character is quiet or even-tempered.. try mine. 🤪
Among all the 4 kids, Xin He has the strongest character, not shy, outgoing and wild. She may have some of my character, and I do believe her birth sign does contribute to her character.
More often, people said that #middlechild are being neglected, hence they know how to observe adult's body language and behave. I think mine is like the opposite, she does not care, and she always put up the best of herself to the outsiders (teachers excluded, ahem.. I'm so sorry to the teachers 🙇♀️).
But with her being neglected, that was not entirely true. After 1 year of IFC, I withdrew her out and brought her to work everyday. But, when business wasn't very good & I was so stressed, I neglected the 2 girls. Soon, Yi He was having health condition, my whole mind is focused on her.
So, I have to leave Xin He alone with the helper while I keep Yi He with me, accompanying her for hospital visits, even when she was admitted. It got worst after Didi's arrival as I have to bring Didi along during Yi He hospital visit. So, my energy is focused mainly on Yi He and Didi.
Xin He was also forced to grow up and stay strong for her eldest sister because she always encourages and act as a strong pillar for Yi He when she had her injection and during the days when she had side effects.
As for favouritism, we don't practise that:
- During quarrels, all parties involved will be scolded (after finding out the cause), because you can't clap with 1 hand.
- When buy things, I have to buy x4
- When 1 don't have party / photoshoot / toys, all don't have
- When 1 has fallen sick, the whole house eat porridge, so everyone have to play a part to keep ourselves healthy and safe.. if you don't want to eat 1-2 weeks of porridge 😏
She's wild, she's outgoing, she's cute, she love to draw and she love to piss her parents and teachers - That's my 2nd child - Xin He.
对她永远都是多一份心疼，可是每次给她气到一命呼呼。。
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