[153991] 20791. Young Roddy & Le$ - Bout It (2014)★★
[153992] 20792. Young Paris - Kaké (2014)★★
[153993] 20793. Veronica Domingues - Catch Me When I Fall (2014)★★
[153994] 20794. Ummet Ozcan - SMASH! (2014)★★
[153995] 20795. Ty Farris - Where I Excel (2014)★★
[153996] 20796. Trust - Joyland (2014)★★
[153897] 20797. Trust - Barely (2014)★★
[153998] 20798. Trap Sensei - Can't Get A Hold Of Me (2014)★★
[153999] 20799. The Derevolutions - Bad King Kong (2014)★★
[154000] 20800. Shy Glizzy - Awwsome (2014)★★
[154001] 20801. RuPaul - Sissy That Walk (2014)★★__Steven Corfe
[154002] 20802. RRose RRome - The Hope (2014)★★
[154003] 20803. Ratking - Canal (2014)★★__Eric K. Yue
[154004] 20804. Peking Duk & Safia - Take Me Over (2014)★★
[154005] 20805. Novo Amor - Holland (2014)★★__Josh Bennett
[154006] 20806. Nakk Mendosa - Altitude (2014)★★
[154007] 20807. Mr. Marcelo - Still Dreaming (2014)★★
[154008] 20808. Murda Mook - 6 God Freestyle (2014)★★
[154009] 20809. Moneybagg Yo - Flexin & Finessin (2014)★★
[154010] 20810. Mas Ysa - Shame (2014)★★
[154011] 20811. JPDREAMTHUG & Lil Sony - Stardust (2014)★★
[154012] 20812. JPDREAMTHUG - All Glass (2014)★★
[154013] 20813. iNTIM - 16 svenska hits på 6 minuter (2014)★★
[154014] 20814. Insomnium - While We Sleep (2014)★★
[154015] 20815. Hannah Diamond - Every Night (2014)★★
[154016] 20816. Florida Georgia Line - Dirt (2014)★★
[154017] 20817. Katie Gately - Pivot (2014)★★
[154018] 20818. Kcee & Davido - Ogaranya (2014)★★
[154019] 20819. Kaaris - S.E.V.R.A.N (2014)★★
[154020] 20820. Kaaris - Paradis Ou Enfer (2014)★★
[154021] 20821. Dua Lipa - New Love (2015)★★__Nicole Noland
[154022] 20822. Famous Dex - Hoes Mad (2015)★★
[154023] 20823. Fox Academy - Grape Soda Bby (2015)★★
[154024] 20824. Fox Academy - Perfect Shirt (2015)★★
[154025] 20825. Givers - Bermuda (2015)★★
[154026] 20826. Good Grades - Catch Me (2015)★★
[154027] 20827. Hil Holla - Backseat (2015)★★
[154028] 20828. Hooliganz - Lost Love (2015)★★
[154029] 20829. HottBoy Zay - Let It Off Your Chest (2015)★★
[154030] 20830. Jah Cure - Rasta (2015)★★
[154031] 20831. Sneazzy - Super (2015)★★
[154032] 20832. Sniffle Party - All The Snow Is Gone (2015)★★
[154033] 20833. Swipey & Romilli - Dirty (2015)★★
[154034] 20834. Team Eastside Peezy - Hard Times (2015)★★
[154035] 20835. Slim Thug - Drophead (2015)★★
[154036] 20836. Salad Boys - Dream Date (2015)★★
[154037] 20837. Terintino - Ear (2015)★★
[154038] 20838. Redneck Souljers - Firewater (2015)★★
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[154043] 20843. Onra & Suzi Analogue - Vibe Wit U (2015)★★
[154044] 20844. Moneybagg Yo - Big Racks (2015)★★
[154045] 20845. Mhysa & Chino Amobi - power cuts (2015)★★
[154046] 20846. Major Lazer & Kali Uchis - Wave (2015)★★
[154047] 20847. Yo Trane - Late Night Drive (2015)★★
[154048] 20848. Young Money Yawn & Young Dolph - Half the Time (2015)★★
[154049] 20849. Tom MacDonald - Wheels Keep Turning (2015)★★__Tom MacDonald
[154050] 20850. Tom MacDonald - Old Number Seven (2015)★★__Tom MacDonald
[154051] 20851. Moonspell - Domina (2015)★★
[154052] 20852. Kabaka Pyramid - Well Done (2015)★★
[154053] 20853. Kamaiyah & Hottboy Zay - Out The Bottle (2015)★★
[154054] 20854. KAMAU & No Wyld - Jusfayu (2015)★★
[154055] 20855. Karmah - Intergalactic (2015)★★
[154056] 20856. Lukas Graham - Funeral (2015)★★
[154057] 20857. Lukas Graham - 7 Years (2015)★★
[154058] 20858. Kusta - Westcoast Lovin' (2015)★★
[154059] 20859. Kidd Kidd - The Game (2015)★★
[154060] 20860. Lo$ Zafiro$ - Los Babalaos (2015)★★
[154061] 20861. Digga D & Sav'O - Kill Confirmed (2018)★★
[154062] 20862. Diplo, Lil Yachty & Santigold - Worry No More (2018)★★
[154063] 20863. Discoholic - Still Down to Get Down (2019)★★
[154064] 20864. Disiz - Autre espèce (2017)★★∿
[154065] 20865. Disiz - Kaïju / Disizilla (2018)★★
[154066] 20866. Disiz - Splash (2017)★★
[154067] 20867. DJ Ackym, Adrian Sina & Sandra N - Sa ma saruti (2017)★★
[154068] 20868. DJ Boring - Untitled B (2018)★★
[154069] 20869. DJ Hard Hitta, Scotty & T-Top - Privacy (2019)★★
[154070] 20870. DJ Paul, Yelawolf & Jon Connor - Get Away (2016)★★
[154071] 20871. DMP Jefe - Make Sum Shake (2018)★★
[154072] 20872. DontBlameChase - Should've Stayed in School (2019)★★
[154073] 20873. Doobie & Clever - Burn (2019)★★
[154074] 20874. Dot Rotten - No Friends (2016)★★
[154075] 20875. døves & Wicca Phase Springs Eternal - looks (2018)★★
[154076] 20876. Dreamville - Sleep Deprived (2019)★★
[154077] 20877. Dua Lipa - Don't Start Now (2019)★★__Nabil Elderkin
[154078] 20878. D'Valentina - Nothing's Forever (2017)★★
[154079] 20879. Dzknow - Higher Speed Club (2019)★★
[154080] 20880. Dzkonw - Role Playing Game (2019)★★
[154081] 20881. EDEN - gold (2017)★★
[154082] 20882. EDEN - rock + roll (2016)★★
[154083] 20883. EDEN - start/end (2017)★★
[154084] 20884. Elderbrook - Talking (2017)★★
[154085] 20885. Elderbrook & Rudimental - Something About You (2019)★★
[154086] 20886. Elisapie - Arnaq (2018)★★
[154087] 20887. Elliot Moss - Barricade (2019)★★
[154088] 20888. Elliot Moss - July 4 (2019)★★
[154089] 20889. Elliot Moss - Silver + Gold (2019)★★
[154090] 20890. Elliphant & Skrillex - Spoon Me (2016)★★
[154091] 20891. Elon Musk - RIP Harambe (2019)★★
[154092] 20892. Emotional Oranges - Iconic (2019)★★
[154093] 20893. Eryn Martin - Ball (2019)★★
[154094] 20894. Eryn Martin - SK8FASTEATASS (2019)★★
[154095] 20895. ev.exi & Desired - Getting Late (2019)★★
[154096] 20896. EXO - For Life (2016)★★
[154097] 20897. FACS - In Time (2019)★★
[154098] 20898. Faf Larage & Akhenaton - L'américain (2018)★★
[154099] 20899. FAKA - From a Distance (2015)★★
[154100] 20900. Falconcrest & Ray Vendetta - Topsy Turvy (2019)★★
[154101] 20901. Falcons & B. Lewis x GoldLink x Jazz Cartier - Waterworld (2018)★★
[154102] 20902. Fat White Family - Feet (2019)★★
[154103] 20903. Fat White Family - Tastes Good With The Money (2019)★★
[154104] 20904. Fat White Family - When I Leave (2019)★★
[154105] 20905. fats'e, shinigami & 93FEETOFSMOKE - old me (2019)★★
[154106] 20906. Fivio Foreign & Rich the Kid - Richer Than Ever (2019)★★
[154107] 20907. Flipp Dinero & Rich the Kid - Looking At Me (2019)★★
[154108] 20908. Flor Amargo & Mon Laferte - Busco a alguien (2017)★★
[154109] 20909. Fox Academy - Popeyes Bag (2018)★★
[154110] 20910. Fox Academy - Property Brothers (2019)★★
[154111] 20911. fox4G & LEX - Sides (2019)★★
[154112] 20912. Franc Moody - Dopamine (2017)★★__Margot Bowman
[154113] 20913. Franc Moody - Dream In Colour (2019)★★__Marta Brodacka
[154114] 20914. Franc Moody - Terra Firma (2019)★★__Jacek Zmarz
[154115] 20915. Fredo, Yung Bans & Swaghollywood - Ain't Nothing (2019)★★
[154116] 20916. French Montana & Juicy J - 50's & 100's (2019)★★
[154117] 20917. Frenzo Harami - HB Freestyle (2019)★★
[154118] 20918. Freshie - Stick With It (2019)★★
[154119] 20919. G Perico - Nothin' But Love (2016)★★
[154120] 20920. Gallant & 6LACK - Sweet Insomnia (2019)★★
[154121] 20921. GALXARA - Killa Killa (2019)★★
[154122] 20922. GAWNE, Mac Lethal, Futuristic & Crypt - Death to Mumble Rap (2019)★★
[154123] 20923. ghostofblu - 608 (2017)★★
[154124] 20924. ghostofblu - AllMyDreams (2019)★★
[154125] 20925. ghostofblu - Killer (2018)★★
[154126] 20926. Griselda - Dr. Bird's (2019)★★__Hype Williams✚
[154127] 20927. Haarper - Anemic (2019)★★
[154128] 20928. Haarper - Puke (2019)★★
[154129] 20929. Hanzo - Civic (2019)★★
[154130] 20930. Hanzo & 6 Dogs - Blue Toes (2019)★★
[154131] 20931. Hanzo & SeanThomMoney - Complicated (2019)★★
[154132] 20932. Harlem Spartans - Call Me A Spartan (2016)★★
[154133] 20933. Head - Not Alone (2019)★★
[154134] 20934. Higher Power - Seamless (2019)★★
[154135] 20935. Hilltop Hoods - Golden Era Records Cypher (2016)★★
[154136] 20936. HMLTD - Loaded (2019)★★
[154137] 20937. HMLTD - The West Is Dead (2019)★★
[154138] 20938. HMLTD - Why? (2019)★★
[154139] 20939. Homeboy Sandman - Live & Breathe (2019)★★
[154140] 20940. Honie Gold - Playboy (2019)★★
[154141] 20941. Hood Ridaz - Me & My Broken Heart (2017)★★
[154142] 20942. Hook - Riot (2019)★★
[154143] 20943. Hook - Stand It (2019)★★
[154144] 20944. Hot Sugar - Your Nails Look So Pretty (2014)★★∿
[154145] 20945. Hothead1300 - In My Feelings (2019)★★
[154146] 20946. Hothead1300 - Right or Wrong (2019)★★
[154147] 20947. HottBoy Zay - Froze Up (2016)★★
[154148] 20948. HottBoy Zay - Play Me (2016)★★
[154149] 20949. HUSKii - Barely Awake And Paranoid (2016)★★
[154150] 20950. HUSKii & Lil Sknow - Servo (2018)★★
[154151] 20951. HUSKii & Lil Sknow - Slurpee (2018)★★
[154152] 20952. Hypno Carlito - Down Low (2018)★★
[154153] 20953. Injury Reserve - Rap Song Tutorial (2019)★★
[154154] 20954. INTIM - 15 svenska hits på 5 minuter (2017)★★
[154155] 20955. Isobel Campbell - Hey World (2019)★★
[154156] 20956. J Stylioso - Mayberry (2018)★★
[154157] 20957. J. Cole - Ville Mentality (2016)★★
[154158] 20958. J.I. - Company (2019)★★
[154159] 20959. Jackboy - Finessed A Finesser (2017)★★
[154160] 20960. Jakob Ogawa - Sunshine Girl (2018)★★
[154161] 20961. Jakob Ogawa - You'll Be On My Mind (2016)★★
[154162] 20962. James Arthur - Quite Miss Home (2019)★★
[154163] 20963. James Arthur & Travis Barker - You (2019)★★
[154164] 20964. James Arthur, Ty Dolla $ign & Shotty Horroh - Treehouse (2019)★★
[154165] 20965. James Vickery - Pressure (2019)★★
[154166] 20966. Jay'Ton - Mas Alta (Most High) (2019)★★
[154167] 20967. Jeembo - M.O.D. (2019)★★
[154168] 20968. Jermiside & L-Marr the Star - We Are (2016)★★
[154169] 20969. Jizzle Buckz - Crazy Story (2019)★★
[154170] 20970. Casiopea: Casiopea (1979)★★★
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【離苦得樂的大法緣】(English writing below)
有些父母,還沒來得及見到自己的孩子,就得爲幼小的嬰靈「出殯」。
昨天早上,有一位我從未見過的女讀者,私訊告訴我她六週大的胚胎已離她而去。她看過我講關於墮胎和流產的臉書直播,於是問如何爲她的水子靈報名超度。
在此,提醒大家,居家內勿擺放太多水晶或風水吉祥物。這些都會影響母親受孕及懷胎,也會破壞親子關係等等。
有些東西催得了財,卻會堵住子嗣運,讓你無法添丁。擺錯了,更會讓你「丁財兩空」。
也有些案列,當夫妻事業越來越好時,會猛然發現孩子的問題卻特別多,不聽話、學業不佳、健康頻頻出狀況、迷戀不健康的東西等等。
風水這門事,需要把一個家庭所有人的八字放在一起,再配合這個居家的風水一起看,來達到最有效的方案。不是隨便買個東西,放在所謂的吉祥方位,就能發的不清不楚。千萬也別隨便推薦人家亂買。
你的八字如果承受不起,又或者那位指點你的人福德不足,那就必需從你命中的另外一環去扣。這樣才符合因果律。
所以厲害的風水師,一定會自己修得好,再盡她他全力保你闔家平安,財源滾滾。這是我們的職業道德,不能像一般人一樣「見錢眼開」,不管客人家運的安危。
清明節要到了,大家都會去拜祖先,有的會祈求祖先保佑。但祖先如果活著的時候,沒什麼修善功,死前還病苦連連,你認為她他死後化為鬼,就會有更大的能力來保佑你們龐大的家族嗎?
我看到的事實是,很多祖先自身難保,後代沒持續爲他們超度,消業增福,結果祖先後代通通都不順。
我個人不主張吃拜過祖先的食物,尤其是孕婦,因爲一般祖先屬陰,我們屬陽。把他們吃過的食物,吃進來,我們身上的陰氣鬼氣會加重。
無論是墮胎還是流產的婦女,都應該坐小月子,把身體調好,除了報名超度,也得安水子靈牌位,及修懺悔法。
如果你想:
❤️ 盡孝道幫助自己祖先往投更好的境界,
🤒 爲病重的家人祈福超度他們的纏身靈,
👶🏻 爲墮胎或流產的孩子報名超度,
❤️ 爲自己的纏身靈冤親債主報名超度解怨
我大力推薦你可以報名我根本上師聖尊蓮生活佛這個星期六,2019年3月30日,主壇的《淨土三尊清明超度護摩大法會》。
淨土三尊,即是西方三聖,教主爲「南無阿彌陀佛」,左脅侍持淨瓶的「南無觀音菩薩」和右脅侍持蓮花「南無大勢至菩薩」。
能夠「一心不亂」的唸佛,臨終時,便會有西方三聖持著蓮台來接引你,往生西方極樂世界。
做不到,臨終時,會見到鬼祖先來個welcome party, 牛頭馬面和大二爺伯。這時,就得仰賴有大法力的成就者來爲亡者超度。
我爲何相信蓮生活佛能夠幫助你?因爲我親身體驗過,我和我家人祖先的故事就寫了在這臉書文章:goo.gl/KbCcXW
欲想報名這個星期六下午三點的《淨土三尊清明超度護摩大法會》,請在今天下午五點前到台灣雷藏寺網站,註冊爲會員,使用網路報名系統報名護摩法會:
💻 台灣雷藏寺網址: ➡️ https://tbsec.org/
📩 線上報名法會➡️ https://goo.gl/TnVyyW
📩 線上報名系統說明 ➡️ https://bit.ly/2O0DlSH
如果過了截至時間,你可以下載報名超度法會表格和匯款資料,再發電郵給雷藏寺。
報名祖先可寫:
祖先姓名或例如,李(你的姓)氏歷代祖先。
報名水子靈:
XXX (母親姓名)之水子靈,地址是牌位地址或母親居住地址。
報名超度,供養隨意,但我覺得如果後代太吝嗇,祖先可能會托夢來「打屁股」吧。😄
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There are some parents who never get to see their child, and already had to make "funeral arrangement" for the young infant spirit.
Two days ago, I received a PM in the morning from a lady reader whom I had never met. She told me how her 6-week-old embryo had left her. She watched my old FB Live on abortion and miscarriage, and wanted to know how she could register for deliverance for her baby spirit.
My gentle reminder to everyone: Do not place excessive crystals and auspicious Feng Shui ornaments in your home. These can affect the chances of a healthy pregnancy, and also spoil the relations between the parents and their children.
While such objects may be able to bring in wealth, they will also obstruct the luck of having descendants. When placed in the wrong sector at home, you end up losing both money and your children.
I have also seen such cases: as the careers and wealth of the couple improve, their children woes also escalate e.g. disobedient behaviour, poor academic results, deteriorating health, unhealthy addictions etc.
A good quality Feng Shui audit requires putting together the Bazi of all the family members, with the home Feng Shui, so as to reach the most effective and efficient solutions, that do not compromise on anyone in the household.
Buying something randomly and placing it in the so-called auspicious location is not going to help you prosper like mad. Hence, do not ever recklessly recommend such objects to others.
If your Bazi is not up to it, or the person who advises you does not have sufficient merits and virtues to "transfer" to you, then the "wealth" that you gain has to be compensated by something else in your Destiny, so as to fulfil the Law of Karma.
This is why a competent Feng Shui practitioner is definitely one who cultivates him/herself well, and put in his/her best effort to ensure the safety, peace and continuous inflow of wealth for your family. Such is our professional ethic to uphold, and not to drool at the sight of money, disregarding the safety of our clients' family luck.
Qing Ming Festival is just round the corner. Many of us would be praying to our ancestors. Some will seek the blessings of our ancestors. But think about it, if your ancestor did not accumulate much virtuous deeds while alive, and suffered immensely due to sickness before his/her death, how likely is he/her be able to have greater powers to bless the entire family clan, just because he/she became a ghost?
The reality that I see is that many ancestors are having a hard time themselves in the netherworld. When their descendants do not continuously register for bardo deliverance for them, to eradicate their negative karma and increase their good fortune, both the descendants and ancestors have a hard time in their respective worlds.
By the way, I do not advocate consuming foods and drinks that have been offered to the ancestors. This goes out to ESPECIALLY pregnant ladies. Because ancestors belong to the Yin realm, while we living beings are in the Yang realm. Consuming their food will introduce excessive Yin ghostly qi in our bodies, destroying our Yang energy.
Whether the baby is lost through abortion or miscarriage, the mother should still do a short confinement to nurse her body back to better health. Apart from registering for bardo deliverance, the parents should also enshrine a tablet for the baby spirit at the temple, and cultivate repentance practice.
If you wish to:
❤️ demonstrate filial piety and help your ancestors be reborn in a better realm,
🤒 help your sickly family member to seek blessings and deliver his/her karmic creditors,
👶🏻 register for bardo deliverance for your aborted/miscarriaged child,
❤️ resolve the debt of enmity between you and your karmic creditors and sign them up for bardo deliverance,
I strongly recommend that you can register for this Saturday's, 30 March 2019, Qing Ming Bardo Deliverance Pure Land Trinity Homa Ceremony, presided by my Root Guru, His Holiness Living Buddha Lian-Sheng.
The Pure Land Trinity, otherwise known as the The Three Saints of the West, comprised of the leader Amitabha Buddha, Avalokitesvara (Guan Shi Yin) Bodhisattva on His left who holds a purification vase and willow leaves, and Mahasthamaprapta Bodhisattva on His right who holds lotus bud.
When you can recite the name of Amitabha Buddha single-mindedly, as you pass on, you will see The Three Saints of the West and the entourage of sages appearing to welcome you with your lotus throne. You will then be reborn in the Western Pure Land of Paradise.
If you cannot do it, as you die, you will see your ghostly ancestors throwing a welcome party for you, as well the Ox-Head and Horse-Face Hell Guards, and the Black and White Impermanence deities coming for you. At this time, you can only rely on the supreme transcendental powers of an accomplished cultivator to deliver the dead.
Why do I have faith that Living Buddha Lian-Sheng can help you? Because I have personally experienced it myself. The story of my family, my ancestors and myself is written in this FB article: goo.gl/KbCcXW
To register for this Saturday 3pm, Qing Ming Bardo Deliverance The Three Saints of the West Homa Ceremony, please register an account online at the website of Taiwan Lei Tsang Temple, and use the online registration system to sign up for the Homa Ceremony:
💻 Taiwan Lei Tsang Temple website: ➡️ https://tbsec.org/
📩 Online Homa Registration URL ➡️ https://goo.gl/TnVyyW
📩 Guide to Online Registration ➡️ https://bit.ly/2O0DlSH
(The deadline for online application for every Saturday's Homa Ceremony is till Friday 5pm. After which, you will have to email the temple with the downloaded forms.)
Registration for ancestors:
Name of the deceased or 李(your surname)氏歷代祖先。
Registration for fetal spirits:
XXX (name of Mother)之水子靈,
Address would be either the tablet temple address or the mother's residential address.
The donation amount for Homa Ceremony registration is entirely your choice. But in my humble opinion, if you are too stingy to your ancestors, they may very well appear in your dreams to give you a good spanking. 😄
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【防狼之心不可無】
My mum didn't teach me about the birds and the bees.
I was a voracious reader and figured it out on my own at the age of 8, while reading a Charlie Brown encyclopedia.
But what my mum relentlessly taught me was to be wary of wolves. Stranger or family, they can morph into big bad wolves.
My parents worked 12 hours a day to provide for me.
As they were often not around, my mum commando trained me to be fiercely independent since I was a little girl.
I would be home alone for as long as 8 hours after school.
Mum drilled into me never to answer the door if a stranger knocks.
Once when I was 5, I was crossing the small road, to find my grandpa at the market.
I was on my own.
(Told you I was trained young. I would also like to think we lived in a generally safe neighborhood.)
A stranger man stopped me in my track and asked me if I wanted sweets.
My red alert antenna shot up.
I said no firmly to the man.
(I had never liked candy anyway.)
He persisted and told me he could bring me to his car where there were many sweets and toys.
I glared at him as fiercely as a 5-year-old could and threatened to scream if he didn't leave.
The man hurriedly backed off.
My mum's script for dealing with such strangers worked!
When I was 7, I was taking buses on my own to my mum's office at Keppel, after school.
I worked part-time in my mum's office as a tele-operator, Girl Friday and did all sorts of admin duties. #childabuse
Mum was very strict in my telephone etiquette. Few people could tell that they were speaking to a 7-year-old over the phone.
It was a male-dominated environment, and my dad would insist that I wear more trousers than dresses. I rarely had any dress except for CNY. No mini skirts, no strappy revealing tops, no hot pants, no masquerading as a Disney princess looking for a Prince.
Before I was 12, my mum would often reinforced to me:
No man should be allowed to touch me. That would be molest and is a criminal offense.
Never get into a lift alone with another male stranger. If the man comes in after me, I must quickly exit the lift.
Don't talk to strangers, even if they are females.
Don't accept gifts, drinks or foods from strangers, in case they are drugged.
Learn to run quickly.
Learn to shout loudly and fiercely.
Don't show your fear in front of wolves.
Bite as hard as I can.
Kick right with all the strength I can.
Don't walk in dark streets.
Don't sleep on the bus.
Avoid sharing seats with men on the bus.
Always check to see if anyone is tailing me.
#ninjaintraining
For umpteen times throughout my childhood and teenage years, my mum would say, that I MUST let her know if any man touches me. Even if it's a male relative or my own father.
She said she would definitely pursue legal action if I was molested. Because my safety is of paramount importance to her than anything else.
Mum also went through many times, how I should react/slap/kick if there was an outrage of my modesty.
She told me why it was important to respect my body and not have it manipulated by others.
She emphasized to me about the virtue of celibacy before marriage and why girls should not abuse their bodies.
She also warned me not to trust men when they use love as a bait to get into bed with them or use excessive flowery words. Such men would never make good husbands.
And never never get myself drunk. #thankBuddhaIdontdrink
Mum also said, if she had to bring me up alone, without daddy, she would NEVER have another man live with us, in case anything happened to me. Blood is thicker than water, Mum would reiterate.
A woman never has to build her life and happiness on another man.
Mum led by example and held her word to the very end. #soproudofmymum
You can say I grew up in a very protective environment and had a distinct sense of what is right and wrong because of my mum.
I count myself fortunate that I had never been put in compromising situations.
Or rather, I was quick to jump out when the situation isn't going right.
Like when passengers make funny requests to me on board.
The worst was when a Chief Steward walked behind me, at a narrow aisle and slided his hand against the back of my waist.
I was ready to crack his wrist and then "apologise" profusely if he did it again.
#crackfirstthenreport #大不了丟工作罷了
I also do not like it when taking photos with men, and their hands slide up to my shoulders.
Your hand got no better place to put? Did you ask for permission? #crack
About a year ago, I visited this new cafe for its desserts.
When I stepped into the cafe, this vibe of sadness enveloped me.
I was slightly perturbed. It was a newly renovated cafe, with highly Instagrammable decor.
Why the gloom? Could my Feng Shui antenna have sensed things wrongly?
I had my Luo Pan with me but didn't take the sitting directions of the cafe. It didn't seem appropriate at that time.
A few days ago, I read of its owner having depression since she was a child.
Her parents fought often and after the divorce, she stayed with her mum and her mum's boyfriend's family.
She was only 9 years old when the father of her mum's boyfriend molested her. It was her second time being molested by an adult figure.
The old man orchestrated to first win her trust and reliance, when the old man offered to pick her up from school, as her mum worked long hours. Sometimes she had to wait 5 hours before her mum could picked her up.
Not once did she spoke a word about this to her mum. She didn't wanted to burden her mother who worked 3 jobs and being lonely and bullied in school, she was "wrongly" glad that someone wanted her.
Ever since such a turbulent childhood, she had never felt emotionally secure. When she broke up with her boyfriend of 6 years, she sunk further into clinical depression, feeling that she had lost her safety net in life.
One lady I knew had a father who molested her younger sister. Ever since she knew, she became very wary of him.
Once while she was sleeping, her father came up to her bed, on the pretext of covering her with the blanket.
She woke up in time before anything happened.
I also heard of a real-life story where all the 3 daughters were molested in turn by their father. I knew one of them.
None of them told their mother.
One day, the father died at his work site, due to a crane accident. At his funeral, the eldest daughter said coldly to his dead body that she would now forgive him.
Why do you think he died such a horrible death, my friend?
To all parents out there, as you send your children to one enrichment class after another, please do not neglect to teach your children about wolves.
Your children need to feel safe to confide into you.
You need to educate them what is unacceptable behaviour when it comes to their bodies.
The world is getting more dangerous.
Our children must be skilled in handling unexpected situations where trust is breached.
Don't assume it will never happen to your children.
If it does, I hope for the good of your common sense, that you will do what is necessary to protect your child. Don't sweep things under the blanket and jeopardize your child's emotional sanity for the rest of his/her life.
Bad things don't just happen to little girls. Little boys should be well-informed too.
If you fail in your protective duty as a parent, the first adult that a child trust, you will not be spared from the clutches of Yin punishment.
And if you are a wolf in a sheep's clothing reading this, wake up your idea and repent soon.
Even if the police is unable to arrest you,
no one gets away from Karma.
The consequences of your evil deeds will always haunt you, even in your next life and next next life, till the people you hurt get their revenge and you truly repent, never to repeat your misdeeds again.
.........
天知地知 你知我知 何謂無知,
善報惡報 遲報速報 終須有報。
陽世官刑雖幸免,
陰司法網總難逃。
~ 新加坡韭菜芭城隍廟
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