“That’s a stupid idea.”
“Stick to what you know.”
“You can’t afford that.”
“No one would say yes to that.”
“I would never do that.”
“That is too risky.”
“No one wants to hear that from you.”
“You’re too young”
“You’re too old.”
“You’re not serious, right?.” - I’ve heard them all... 😔
And the more I share and grow, the more risk I take, the more I step into a bigger life, the more I hear it...
But... guess what? OTHER PEOPLE’S OPINION IS NONE OF OUR BUSINESS.
It’s called “opinion” for a reason. It’s not the TRUTH.💥
Other people’s opinions used to run me. I used to ask for approval. I cared (way too much) what others thought.
It could become a problem when it gets between you and your goals and vision.
So how do you fix this?
Here is what I do: I ask myself, “Mich, whose life are you living?” and “Who are you living for?”
Whenever I do that, it puts things back into perspective and it reminds me that ultimately, the decision is mine alone. Others opinion is just that, an opinion.
You see, others opinions do not pay our bills.
Others opinions don’t keep us warm at night.
Others opinions are merely a reflection of THEIR own experiences, beliefs and missed goals.
Their opinions don’t “protect us”.
What others opinions do for us is distracting us from our vision, our goals, our hopes and dreams.
Anything is POSSIBLE for you, so do not muddy that belief with someone’s “opinion.”
Be careful who you seek guidance from.
What would you go for if you stop caring about others opinion?👇🏻
#sgmum #mumboss #womensupportingwomen #mumentrepreneur #liveyourbestlife
i thought that 在 [文法] I think；I thought 的使用差別- 看板Eng-Class - 批踢踢 ... 的推薦與評價
剛在網路上看這個影片
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zy7veOnbjh8
3：09 秒
第二個男評審說
I thought you were fantastic.
我的問題是：
在這個情境下，他為什麼不是說
I think you were fantastic.
（我認為妳剛才很不可思議！）
或者說
I think you are fantastic.
（我認為妳很不可思議！）
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我自己的理解是：
這個情境，語感應該用think來說，
我認為「妳剛才」或「說話的現下，妳做的很棒」。
結果，
評審卻說：I thought
他的語意是要說「剛才在聽妳唱歌的當下，我覺得妳很棒」，是這樣嗎？
（因為要表達剛才聽歌的感受，所以才用過去式？）
請問：
通常遇到這種情況，口語上要怎麼表達？
用 I thought 的時機要怎麼拿捏？
這個語境，也可以用I think嗎？
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另外，
2：44 秒
第一個男評審也說
I thought you've absolutely brilliant.
I thought you've sung that beatifully.
我突然很疑惑，為什麼他也用過去式？
是表示客氣的關係嗎？
I thought 乍看之下，
我都習慣翻譯成「我以為」（而非「我認為」）.......
這是口語習慣嗎？
是不是用 I think you've sung that beatifully.
在這個語境下，也可以通。
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