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I had a one-on-one morning with the little sister today and we went for breakfast before heading home to.... exercise!

Yup, it's something we both enjoy and it's heartening seeing her smiles and hearing her laughter throughout. She would come over to give me a high five or a hug after every segment and I found that super sweet.

I used to think that it is hard for me to find time to work out after I became a mum. But now, I've realised all I need to do is to involve them, let them understand that I still have my own needs and wants or better still, find something we all love to do so that we can lead a healthy lifestyle, together.

Here's sharing some highlights from our @getfigure8 Dance Plyo workout today. Wait till the end to see our own fun dance moves and how everything ended on a happy, loving note.

To more fun workouts ahead!

P.S. Re-uploaded this because the previous video was a little jumbled up. For those who asked me, I wear this sports shoes only for indoor workouts so the soles are not that dirty. The kids usually wear non-slip socks only cos' they got no spare shoes ley. So we also clean the floor a little afterwards lar. Haha. A little price to pay for a good time together!

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We had a one-on-one date last weekend because this girl deserved it and I much needed it.

I'm not proud to say it but after she came back from camp, we had a few heated arguments which saw us both lose our cool and she even said in a fit of anger that she wished she could go back to camp. Well, it was of course sad to hear that, just like how the kids tend to say "I don't like you" when they are boiling with anger inside. But I've learnt that they don't mean it in the least and they usually come to me after they calm down to let me know that they still ❤ me to the moon and back and they ❤ their family and home too.

I guess I also tend to say things that I don't mean much when I am mad, such as making negative comments or even comparisons, and it's a habit that I need to work on quitting because I've realised that our words have profound impact on the kids and they can hurt so much unknowingly. So yup, that's definitely a work in progress for me.

I'm not sure how things will slowly work out as she turns ten years of age this year, but we will just have to take a step at a time, fall and pick ourselves up together. I also need to remind myself to be patient, to listen and understand, and to always remind her that my love for her is unconditional.

She might be the big sister in the family but she is still my sweet baby in many ways, one who still loves to cuddle and hug me, who holds my hand when we are out, who writes sweet love notes just for me, who is proud to look like Mummy and who always thinks of saving the last chocolate for me (and refuses to let her siblings finish them up).

All the best for your oral exams, my dear, we did our best to practise and as long as you give it your best shot, that is always enough for me. Hope you will find my surprise good luck note in your wallet before your exams start and may it bring a smile on your face too! ❤😊

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It was a simple breakfast date we had. We ate her favourite kaya toast and half boiled eggs, went shopping for a present for her and she was sweet to get something small for her siblings too, had fun at the outdoor playground before we decided it was too hot, then ended it off at the arcade where we shot balls at dinosaurs, played bowling, whacked moles and fished for sharks and stingrays.

I could see the joy in her eyes, I could feel her enthusiasm and it's plain to see how my secondborn really enjoyed her one-on-one time with Mama - something she has been deprived of since the baby brother came along and she was no longer the littlest in the family. It's true, as ironic as it sounds, I now realise that I have got to learn to better let go so as to forge closer bonds with each of my kids (more heartfelt thoughts on letting go on the blog).

I hope this middle child of mine knows how much she is loved, how special she is to me and never for a moment feel that she is left out. Looking forward to more mother-and-daughter dates with this cutie pie who has the most infectious laugh and never fails to cheer up my day.

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