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จู่ๆ คลิป The Dangers of the Good Child ของ School of Life ก็เด้งขึ้นมาบนฟีด เด็กดีบ้างไม่ดีบ้างอย่างเราอดเปิดเข้าไปดูไม่ได้ เห็นว่าน่าสนใจดี เลยสรุปคร่าวๆ และแอบเติม+คิดต่อเอาเองปนเปไป ขอทดไว้แบ่งกันอ่านตามนี้ครับ
พ่อแม่ส่วนใหญ่น่าจะคาดหวังให้ลูกเป็น 'เด็กดี' คำว่าเด็กดีนี่คงนิยามต่างกันไป แต่เด็กดีตามมาตรฐานทั่วไปมักจะเป็นเด็กที่มีความประพฤติเหมาะสมตามความคาดหวังของสังคมและผู้ปกครอง ทำการบ้านตรงตามเวลา พูดจาไพเราะ มีระเบียบวินัย ทำคะแนนสอบได้ดี เ...
Continue ReadingDanger of being a good boy
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Suddenly, the dangers of the good child of life just bounced up on the feed. Some good kids are not good. We couldn't help but see that it's interesting. in conclusion, sketchy and secretly fill + continue thinking by yourself. I'm sorry. Let's share. Read as follows.
Most parents should expect them to be 'good boy'. The word good kid would be different. But good kids according to common standards are often children who behave according to society expectations and parents do homework on time. Speak beautifully, disciplined. Score. Good exam, obedient to parents, teachers, teachers and more as we can imagine.
Sounds good. What's the problem?
The problem is about that
1. ' a good boy ' always follows too much teaching. The more obedient and in mess. He is admired as a ' good boy ' often he becomes a person who gives ear to instruction, teaching and follows. That makes ' good ' for him not a must. Make your own decision, not what he thinks and choose to do good, but the good deeds they do because other people tell me to do.
' good deeds ' for good children like this is a good thing to wait to hear the order of ' Adult '. So it is a good thing that you don't have to consider it yourself. No debate and clear goodness, not complicated. Oh... it is a scary ' good ' Quite cramped and doesn't open space for ' goodness ' in a way that doesn't match their own.
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2. ' good kids ' are in a strictly family. Parents are disciplined. They specialize in deal with ' power ' who ordered to learn how to manage and survive to make parents satisfied. But deep down, they are stressed within being a child. Obedient and courteous may hide terror. These kids go well with expectation, but life to answer other people's expectations all the time accumulates stress.
One thing that 'good boy' never touches is to be accepted when wrong or the hug of others who can withstand his bad because he has been trying to act cuddle good, so he has never experienced love or forgiveness when being bad. Don't think humans can show the dark side. We can show jealousy, greed, selfishness. That makes him no patience for ' bad boy ' in his eyes because he doesn't allow himself to be ' bad ' (not sincere to I say - I have a dark side) like this. ' good boy ' becomes an angel who doesn't understand. Human beings like to judge others, act like to be a moral ruler, even if they may grow up to be violent, deal with the bad (that they believe bad)
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3. ' good boy ' may grow up to be a person who doesn't succeed in his career because he follows ' Authenticity ' as adults always says. So they can't think of anything outside the frame. Interesting ideas, often interrupt someone or controversial with normal things They've done it with the right thing for the whole life. Good kids don't dare to offer the same thoughts. The same beliefs. That make the idea of a good kid's mind a bit normal and boring.
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If it's not a ' good boy ' then what will we be?
The answer is that it is a normal human being who understands that there is both dark and bright side. There is a good relationship between those two sides of yourself. Sincere with his own feelings. Admit that we are greedy, angry, envy, jealousy like others. Well, too. See that myself and fellow human beings are complex, not robots programmed by putting 'goodness' into the brain like this. Then we can live with many different societies. Understand, be kind and know that we are not the same. Will it be more high or higher?
Like this, we will open space for ' children ' to explore ' good deeds ' by themselves. Try wrong. Try to be with friends who do bad things. Learn from those things. Have courage to try. Learn and take responsibility for their own life. Gradually concluded by experience. It is not a teaching, a mere order. Doing this also opens the opportunity for children to see the complexity of ' goodness ' both in themselves, others and the world. It's like a drama or a good movie that the character is not white. haha - black but human being. Both Good-bad side mixed in the same person
The scariest thing of ' good boy ' is that when he is ' good ' is gone, it's easy to point fingers at other people and say that you are ' bad '
Without realizing how uncomfortable he is to live ' right ' to make the likes of adults. (even though he doesn't like adults, it's not always wrong)
How about ' good boy ' like this to grow up to be a ' good person ' of society.
Then he will use the power of ' Adult ' which is ' good people ' to point fingers to ' children ' to be ' good ' according to the way they believe.
Read this line. Are you starting to see the horror of 'good boy'?Translated
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